Friend slept with a stag on night out

[HopeDog]

On a night out recently and a friend starting chatting to a group of men on a stag night. She ended up going back to a hotel with, and had sex with the stag.

She thinks she is bu as she is single.

Aibu to think she is wrong?

@Attitude84 - AIBU is the forum you're in - 'am I being unreasonable'?

The stag on a stag night is fairly obviously taken though, lipstick. It's hardly demanding a cv territory. On the contrary, it's deliberate.

As we say a lot on mumsner - It’s not a race to the bottom.

You can loud, argumentive, shag who you want ( I do often) but does anyone actually like that in another person. Male or female.

You want to shag the stag you are legally able to. But obviously you wouldn’t have an issue with the person that sleeps with your long term partner, should it ever happen.

She knew he was the stag, totally in the wrong even if she is single.

No one is taken,individuals are possessions
People are in relationships,that doesn’t equal ownership

Thank you Sparkie!

I have single friends male & female who have sex they don’t demand a c.v and proof of singledom prior to getting jiggy

Perhaps not, but ffs he was a stag at his stag-do

Stag do.So what?

So you'd be happy with some random woman fucking your partner then @lipstick? As he's obviously not taken.

Dear me. The word “taken”, while having somewhat old fashioned connotations, simply implies that the person is taken for a partner. Most of us have moved on from arranged marriages and women as chattels but the phraseology lives on and CLEARLY these days means “not available and in a relationship”

MN is fucking boring these days. Every little thing is jumped on and turned into a feminist issue.

I think we are all wasting our time on this thread, as the OP has long gone. Quick look at her posting history raises some questions for me....

He’s not taken in the least,he’s free to make wise or unwise choices
And if he fucked someone else that’s his responsibility and poor judgement

Still laughing at “rutting Jack Russell” though. Probablg what most people thought when they saw OP’e friend going off with the stag. Not a way most people would like to be viewed.

You’re so right curly what is it with these women making things a feminist issue
Can’t they get in with the laundry or summat instead of getting all feminist

Of course he is, @lipstick, of course he is. No repercussions at all I imagine.

Plenty repercussions if he fucks someone,but that’s his responsibility,his choice
And no he’s not taken.free to go any ole time he wants

Women like her give women like me anxiety

Why?

Both of them are dirty skanks.

Isn’t every issue a feminist issue for women ???

“You’re so right curly what is it with these women making things a feminist issue
Can’t they get in with the laundry or summat instead of getting all feminist”

Boring....

I think a lot of women need to educate themselves on what ARE feminist issues. SO many people, myself included, have said that BOTH the man and the woman in this situation are totally lacking in morals.

Just because the OP’s friend is a woman doesn’t make this whole thread a FUCKING feminist issue!!!! Argh...

One would hope heron

Argh what curly?whats your specific issue with issue discussed in a feminist premise

How you frame feminism is up to you but for me feminism impacts & informs everything

I would feel unsure of our friendship. So in that way it does affect other relationships.

All my friends are decent women, who wouldn’t betray another persons relationship for their own pleasure. I know I can trust them totally.