What random / secret things do you find attractive?!

[Luckyduck88]

So... here are the random things I find attractive in a man.

-someone who is good at catching. This sporting prowess makes me weak at the knees.

-an effortless parallel parker. Swoon.

-Smoking. Hear me out... I do not want a smoker in fact I'd actively avoid a man that smokes... but deep down maybe it's the Hollywood old school glamour (or more likely deep seated crushes on the bad boy at school lighting up behind the bike shed) hangs head in shame

What are your slightly less obvious 'secret' things that make you fancy someone?

Anyone with a bit of musical talent (DH is convinced I married him based on his abilities, he once played me the Terminator theme on his Casio keyboard )

A bloke with an an Irish accent

Green eyes!

Laughing eyes
White shirt with jeans
A good hearty laugh one that makes you laugh too

Long wavy hair, big broad shoulders, very confident walker, talker ( this is actually my dp). But it's the big broad shoulders (ignoring his big belly) that still make me go giddy. I also love an roi accent.

Short, blonde, confident men - ideally an accent. Could be posh, northern, welsh. When I was single I could never resist. Put up with terrible chat, I did. Was worth it.

I go weak at the knees when I see a man drinking red wine out of a large posh wine glass sitting in a brown leather arm chair

That reminds me of Philip Schofield

Policemen in stab vests and combats. In fact combat trousers in general, as long as they're black.

The nice forearms thing goes without saying but isn't a weird one.

On these points (apart from the stab vest), has anyone watched Wheeler Dealers with the mechanic Ant Anstead? Omg amazing forearms, toned, muscly, tanned, and often oily from working in engines - and bonus for me he always wears black combats. Oh and this pic reminds me, a chunky type watch on aforementioned arm.

A man who can sing, bonus if they play guitar too!

One who wears a wedding ring, because I love the fact that they happily/proudly show their commitment to their partner.

That line of hair from a guy's navel to his pubes on an otherwise smooth stomach (especially when they are fully clothed and reach up for something and their top rides up giving you just a peek), swoon!

That unmistakable smell of smoke (fire and cigarettes) and outdoors, maybe a bit of grease and petrol.
Dirty hands that clearly do a physical job.
Strong arms and dark hair.
Biker jackets.
scruffy clothes.

I remember when DH and I were very first dating we were at a house party and he lent me his t-shirt to sleep in so was wandering round with no top on, leather jacket, ripped jeans and his waste length hair loose and all messed up, its still the sexiest thing I have ever seen.

I like quiet, slightly awkward men. When I met my husband, everyone else in a group of mutual friends, (myself included) was loud and sweary and crude, and he just kind of sat there observing. Massively piqued my interest.

And of course rolled up sleeves and a white shirt. He wore his recently and I couldn’t keep my hands off of him!

@ApocalypseNowt I came on here to say the forearm thing!

I don't think anyone has mentioned the line of hair from tummy button to pubis?
YY to chunky jumpers/wellies/general competence with DIY and gardening
Someone who brings you tea in bed
Someone who actually listens and laughs at your jokes rather than pretending they are superior - arrogance a massive turn off
Book lover - nothing better than reading in bed then swapping books
When a swear word is bollocks or bugger and fuck is reserved for either dirty talk or an actual issue. Bit Hugh Grant I guess but hey.
These threads make me realise why OLD has a surplus of 'other' types and why internet trolls are so annoying

The ability to reverse a huge lorry into a really small space with a fag hanging out of their mouth and look effortless while doing it.

If anyone on here knows me in real life this is very outing but, fuck it 😆

• Glasses. Love a man in glasses.
• Jumpers worn over shirts
• Hairy chests
• Well defined calf muscles

The first thing I notice on a guy is the eyes

I’ve a thing for workmen’s trousers with tools hanging off them anyway...but when they have to reach up to do something and the shirt lifts up to show a bit of midriff

Absolutely love watching men shave their beards. (Not that I've seen that in a while as I'm single) but god I could just watch someone do it all day.

Also nice broad shoulders and collarbones.

Drummers as well, have a real thing for men who play drums. Especially if there shirt is off and they are energetically playing them

A man with long hair

Rolled up shirt sleeves on a man in an office setting. He's getting things done!

Another for me. Very pointy canine teeth. Though not dracula long 😀

Rolled up shirt sleeves on a man in an office setting.

Oh hell yes. DH does this a lot and kills me.

Oh and I forgot eyeliner (harks back to my goth days).

@LonelyandTiredandLow I mentioned it, especially the scenario I talk about, if you scroll up 4 posts it's the one with the pic of the hot forearms guy (in fact he's just generally hot)

That line of hair from a guy's navel to his pubes on an otherwise smooth stomach (especially when they are fully clothed and reach up for something and their top rides up giving you just a peek), swoon!

In the Matrix where they extract the bug out of Keanu Reeves, you get a nice glimpse. I think you do when it goes in too. Schwing.

Dark dramatic eyebrows - probably goes back to my Liam obsession as a teen. Also, swagger walk.
Body hair. Lots.
Big hands, broad shoulders.
Tastes/smells of beer and cigarettes.
Good at DIY
I'm hoping this works a bit like cosmic ordering

We haven't started the chant of 'Classic, Classic, Classic yet.........

Beards, but only on men!