What random / secret things do you find attractive?!

[Luckyduck88]

So... here are the random things I find attractive in a man.

-someone who is good at catching. This sporting prowess makes me weak at the knees.

-an effortless parallel parker. Swoon.

-Smoking. Hear me out... I do not want a smoker in fact I'd actively avoid a man that smokes... but deep down maybe it's the Hollywood old school glamour (or more likely deep seated crushes on the bad boy at school lighting up behind the bike shed) hangs head in shame

What are your slightly less obvious 'secret' things that make you fancy someone?

Standard ones of forearms, white shirts, suits

Also like an outward turn in the eye

The biting of his lip and look of concentration that DP does when he's sawing wood

Several posts have reminded me of things I like. High cheekbones, musical talent, swimmers' shoulders, tall men.

I also find a man in a turban very attractive.

Just bumping this asthenosphere we're talking on Radio 1 about this, Scott Mills sad he found it really attractive that his partner was a very good driver & they had people texting in saying about parallel parking on first dates did it for them etc.

When my husband explains geeky things.

The reversing thing, the look of concentration and they are bighting their bottom lip

Grey sweatpants

That bit at the bottom of the abdomen, on the hip. a very well defined one of those is

Can't stand the hand on headrest thing. It feels proprietorial and dangerous!

Blond hair.

Intellect.

I like a hairy chest, and since my teen days seeing an attractive man in "workie boots" (perhaps that's just a Glasgow term haha) makes me swoon.

Random things like driving the car with one hand, arm sort of leaning out the window does it for me. Anything overtly masculine swoon

I like a hairy back. Also monobrows. Don't like a man who grooms himself!

Tensed Forearms 🤤

Big hands

Messy hair

Non hairy but like a snail trail 🤣

Side smile!!

Watching my husband reverse

Armpit hair

a cockney accent

Tall

South African accent

Men in a nice suit

I’m insanely attracted to arrogance.

My partner was an arrogant cunt when I met him, he’s better now but I when he’s being arrogant I’m just like get in my pants now