Please help...desperate

[thelittlestsausage]

Sorry for posting on here...I feel so desperate l just need other people to tell me this is fine.

I'm 18 weeks, 2 mcs previously. I'm so ready for this baby and saw him yesterday in scan kicking his legs and sucking his thumb. I talk to him every day. I imagine what he will be like and I've bought far too much stuff for the nursery already. My family are over the moon. Dh is ready to be daddy.

Tonight I came home and went to the toilet. Slight watery pink bleeding. Exactly how my two mcs started. I've been lying in bed since. I'm terrified. I can't lose another baby and especially as I've seen this little one is already my baby boy, I've counted his toes on scans, I've felt him do little flips.

Feeling lost.

Oh op i hope everything is alright. I had similar bleeds at 20 weeks and it really scared me. Apparently it was cervical bleeding and everything was fine. But it's really worrying isn't it. I hope someone sees you soon. 💐

OP I had bleeding like that and everything was fine.

Keeping my fingers crossed for you. X

I have everything crossed for you.

For what it's worth I had bleeding like that at a similar time and it was all fine

How are you this morning?

I had a UTI last year that presented with a bit of bleeding and back ache. One course of antibiotics later and I was totally fine.

Hope it's something like that for you!

You should be fine

How are you this morning op?

Sending kind thoughts

Oh, pregnancy after miscarriage is such a stressful time.
The hard truth is, nothing you can do right now can change what is or isn’t happening.
So, find a way to park the anxiety. Nice candles, nice music/ audio book, snuggle yourself down in a warm bed, nice warm drink. Try to enjoy the moment with your precious baby wriggling in you.
I was a wreck throughout pregnancy, but tried really hard to make nice moments, even if the day to day was rough.
Got everything crossed for you.

Big hugs OP and I hope all is well today.

hope you are OK today OP xx

I hope you are ok and that you and baby are going to be fine. I understand you must be so worried.
Can you see a doctor today for reassurance?

Hope all is well today OP.

for you OP and hoping all is well

I hope all is well OP

Hope all is well OP, how are you feeling this morning? X

Hi everyone, thanks for the kind words :-) I really appreciate it! I am at work today :-) no bleeding, some slight browny yellowy discharge this morning but nothing now so I'm trying to stay positive. Waiting to hear back from community midwife so will see what she says :-)

That's great news. :)

That's great news littlest sausage, try to rest as much as you can.

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I have no idea how that happened, sorry OP!

Happy to hear it, hope you're feeling kicks soon. Everything feels easier when the baby keeps telling you they're still there.

I had this in both my pregnancies OP and it was from the cervix both times. Statistically now you’ve got to where you are, you are more likely to be just fine than not. But of course you are going to be worried sick; huge internet hugs and keeping everything tightly crossed for you

Sending you my best wishes poster x

Sending you my best wishes OP; your bleed sounds just like one I had at 17 weeks with DS; everything was absolutely fine .