To know it's all gone wrong night before 12 week scan?

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I've had such a good gut feeling this entire pregnancy. Now my 12 week scan is tomorrow and I feel so numb because I just know the baby's dead. I know it's gone wrong. I can just sense it. All the threads I've read about mmc say that they just knew and that's exactly how I feel. The day before my scan. What a sick joke :( can these feelings ever be wrong? Sorry I know it doesn't belong here but posting for traffic I need answers or I'm going to do nothing other than cry all night. This can't be happening.

I've just posted about this on a thread of my own but when you have anxiety you can't trust your own instincts. I have terrible health anxiety but when I was pregnant this translated into fear over my baby. So I drove myself mad over reduced movement. It doesn't help that on messageboards like these you get a lot of well intentioned messages saying "always trust your gut", "mother knows best" etc etc.

I daresay maybe that's true if you aren't usually an anxious person but if you are then your gut will ALWAYS be telling you it's the worst case scenario.

for you. It's awful. Best of luck today x

Best of luck Op!xx

Good luck for today op

I had decided prior to my 12 week scan that I'd made it all up and I'd just eaten too many pies...

Hope your scan went well OP !

Thinking of you x

Wishing you lots of luck today OP!

🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

Sending huge love and 🙏 your way xx

Sending my best wishes that everything is fine xx

Thinking of you

Good luck OP, hope it all goes well

Well.. I was wrong!

Wishing you all the luck in the world for your scan OP Xx

Yay!! Brilliant news!

Although, I knew you would be

Fantastic news!!

Brilliant news op, wish you a happy and healthy pregnancy

Brilliant news

How wonderful! x

Congratulations!! What wonderful news xxx

Amazing, OP!!! I think that's a little girl... xxx

Wonderful! Congratulations, hope you’re over the moon!

Oh best news!

Fantastic news!

I'm glad you were wrong!!!