Ok I know Mumsnet, doesn’t agree with spying.
I don’t know what prompted me to look at his phone tonight, after he had put it down, but I guess, something struck me as odd,
However I found husband has been corresponding with work colleagues I’ve never ever heard about ( he works from home, sometimes travels to site)
He’d spoken to a man, I’d never heard of, and told him about our domestic set up, mother in law coming for Christmas lunch etc ( odd he never menti9ned this “guy” . I never read further than that, so who knows if this is a man, or wHat if they are Male or female they have discussed
He’s spoken to a woman, whose name I’ve never heard of, Lesley ? Or an old fashioned name , who told him he should speak to Shaza or something like that, as the Shazza was freaking out ?? Again I didn’t read further back, but why would. Manager be involved in this sort of stuff ???
I’ve no idea who either of these people are.
Yet my husband knows who ever I deal with ( I work from home, so mention my contacts regularly)
When I asked who these three people were, and why he was telling them about our domestic arrangements, he took his phone, and deleted all the details
( I hadn’t read, I had just literally read the details I have stated here) and he has accused me of having affairs.
And has now stormed off, saying he should divorce me.
I think I have inadvertently discovered more than I should.
I even told him, the more he attacked me ( verbally) the more he was guilty of, according to Mumsnet, from what ive read.
He has gone upstairs, so I assume I have inadvertently caught him in something
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