Why are people so horrified about the lack of interest in NI from the British general public (despite the many references to the English here)? Most have never been there, don't know anyone from there, nor have any reason to visit. Aside from those with personal connections to NI, only older people or those involved with sectarian football teams etc. have any reason to particularly think about why NI is part of the UK or why the UK exists in the first place. It just is, like Wales, England and Scotland.
I see lots of criticism on here that British people are not taught more of this in school - to be honest it came up twice on my syllabus at school, once in history and once in politics, and it was just a really dry and boring topic that you wanted to skip through as quickly as possible, like many other things such as the creation of the NHS, etc..... all important and interesting to me now but really bloody dull and of zero interest at school.
So the fact that the Tory party's current reliance on the DUP and the backstop has made more people aware of the situation has both negative and positive aspects to it. It is raising awareness but also negativity.
Must be pretty rough for people in NI to hear apathy and rejection from both Britain and the ROI but there are plenty of places with comparable or bigger populations who feel they could just disappear and no one would care or notice - both in the UK and plenty of other countries in Europe.
Also, why compare the gay marriage/abortion referenda to the Brexit one? Completely different scenario, based on unknowables and certainly not a clearcut "progressive" v "non-progressive" vote. Some of those with the highest so-called "progressive" credentials voted Leave. It was never, ever going to run as smoothly or produce a clear cut result, even if they had actually put some decent effort into it. It shouldn't have been run in the first place, which is not something you would say about many other referendum questions.