AIBU to think a mother shouldn't be getting pissed with her daughter?

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The daughter is over 18, but both going to a hotel this weekend and happily announces they will be getting pissed

AIBU to think this is inappropriate?

Meh I've had a drink with my adult kids. My son is bloody hilarious when he's on form. Proper belly laughs.

Loving the stories of family enjoying drinking together.

Op I think if mum was alcoholic or bad drinker it's different story.
My dsis is alcoholic, I would die inside if she said this. But in normal relationship with normal children... No drink issues it sounds lovely.

Infact I'd go so far to say how important it is as a family to have a drink and have fun together.

idblowjohnsnow

That's so sad. Dh dm and df are like that. It's really sad.

By contrast we have so many funny memories with my dp.. Wondeful times!
My dm was in fact far far more fun to go out with than many of my friends!! Neither of us got really drunk at all but certainly very merry.

I was very emotionally close to my dp. Dh on the other hand who gets formally offered a beer as though it's the most wild special suggestion... For a family living in the edge is as far away from them emotionally as you can get.

The child is an adult. They can do what they wish.

My birth family is teetotal, so obviously wouldn't be happening with us.

But must make life difficult in fishing and farming communities where fathers and sons tend to work together and there is only one boozer for miles around.

I get drunk with my mum, it's hilarious...
once got my 80yo NaN to do tequila shots with me....

At 27 and 54 I think we can do exactly what we like
I love spending time with DD
We are going away together in next week or so Xmas shopping and Xmas markets
It will probably also involve food and alcohol

Yeah, YABU.

My Mum is a performance teetotaller, and out of her many, many, many snide and judgy habits- the absolute worst has to be her trying to booze-shame me as tho I’m a naughty 15 year old if I do much as have a glass of fizz at a family wedding.

I’m 37 btw.

I think this is an appropriate response to a ridiculous aibu
m.youtube.com/watch?v=htGAdlkStv8

Back in the Olden Days, when all round here was fields, we would say interesting first post.

Just sayin'.

A couple of drinks, yes. Going out and getting drunk, no. I avoid this in general, so I'm not sure why I'd want to do this with my children.

I have children over 18 and wouldn't ever get drunk with them (mind you, I haven't drank in years) but I can't get worked up about other families doing it.

Stop referring to her as ‘her child’. She isn’t a child, she’s ‘her daughter’. I love going on holiday with my parents, brother, aunts, uncles, grandmas, grandads, cousins etc. and getting pissed together. Great times!

I go for cocktails with DD1 20 or we have a few drinks at home, don't see the problem

"Her child" makes it sound like she's filling the baby's sippy cup up with gin.

My child is 20 but I call her by her name

I kind of agree. Drinking is not good for your health anyway and you are meant to set a good example.

I mean a couple of drinks is great but not a Kat Slater approach lol

Can’t see what’s inappropriate about drinking between adults, related or not. I regularly have a few drinks at Christmas with my mum, and I’m in the presence of my (obviously not drinking!) my own kids. True I don’t get ‘drunk’ but I definitely get tipsy.

The thought of getting drunk with my mother now made me cringe. But she did take me 'clubbing' at 16!
My late grandad and I would get pissed on occasion, never planned though.
Would love to get drunk with my nan though :) she's a blast!

I love going out with my mum for food and drinks mixed in with some shopping. We have a great time

Sorry only just seen this thread because me and my eldest have been on an all dayer 🍻

Not inappropriate, you sound incredibly boring. Getting pissed with family is great craic, no one can forgive you like your mother or aunt for having to put you to bed after falling asleep on the patio table. Or maybe we just do it differently in Ireland.

I've gotten pissed with my mum loads of times...I don't understand why it's inappropriate?