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AIBU TO DISLIKE PEOPLE WHO CALL CHILDREN 'KIDS'

275 replies

SuzieCath · 25/11/2018 02:01

Just that really. I just find it unpleasant and my DD7 corrects people she has heard on TV call children kids as she knows that 'kids' are baby goats.

OP posts:
FloofyDoof · 25/11/2018 15:54

Minions FFS.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 25/11/2018 16:02

I used to call mine little Herberts. They are all taller than me now, but still Herberts.

Pimpernell · 25/11/2018 16:04

This is one of those things I've only come across on MN and I assume it's part of that all-consuming (for some) class obsession. Perhaps people think if they express horror ar the word 'kid' being used in reference to a child that people might mistake them for the Duchess of Devonshire rather than plain old Sarah from Swindon.

And, OP, you might want to teach your kid not to correct people. You may find it simply charming, everyone else will just think she's a tiresome bore.

RibbonAurora · 25/11/2018 16:04

You and your DD sound insufferably pretentious. It was a hackneyed and eye-roll inducing response from pedantic clever-clogs (in the futile hope we'd all start channeling the Queen Mother) when I was a kid - and, according to my kids, that was around the time dinosaurs roamed the Earth.

ElizabethMainwaring · 25/11/2018 16:17

excuse capitals: IT'S A JOKE POST.

DianaPrincessOfThemyscira · 25/11/2018 16:51

Just another Mumsnet thing that I am baffled people give head space to.

AndNoneForGretchenWieners · 25/11/2018 16:57

My 95 year old great aunt used to hate that too, and correct anyone who used it. She was met with almost universal eye rolls.

DuchessOfSnooting · 25/11/2018 17:22

NC for this.

Funnily enough though, the late Dowager Duchess of Devonshire would have been as keen on using words other than children as most of us are.

IME, using familiars for children - including kids, brats and kiddos - crosses any perceived lines including social class.

ImpendingDisaster · 25/11/2018 17:49

IME, using familiars for children - including kids, brats and kiddos - crosses any perceived lines including social class.

Not class-related at all.

Silentlyhappy · 25/11/2018 18:28

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Goldenbug · 25/11/2018 18:33

Some words have more than one meaning. Get over it.

Averyimportantperson · 25/11/2018 19:49

It's OK. I dislike you too.

VerbeenaBeeks · 25/11/2018 19:56

MEH, I CAN''T GET WORKED UP ABOUT IT. SENTENCES IN SHOUTY CAPS ARE MORE ANNOYING IMO Grin

ANYWAY, IT'S JUST A WORD. EVEN THOUGH KIDDIES IS MORE ANNOYING THAN KIDS BUT EVEN THEN I STILL CAN'T GET TOO RILED ABOUT IT.
JUST A WORD, INNIT.

Donthugmeimscared · 25/11/2018 21:03

The only person in real life who is bothered by it is my nan. Other than her everyone I know says kids.

MinervaMaronne · 25/11/2018 21:07

I once asked a friend i hadn't seen for a while how her kids were.

She very snootily said that her CHILDREN were well but that she didn't own any goats.

It was said in such a superior way that it put me right off her.

Xenia · 25/11/2018 21:09

I would never use kids. My mother always said that meant baby goats. However I certainly don't dislike anyone who does.

Letsmoveondude · 25/11/2018 21:35

Haha, I’m sorry but I’m one of the same camp, and I know it’s U, I always correct them, she’s a child, not a baby goat.

Ladymacmuff · 25/11/2018 21:39
Biscuit
ChristmasSprite · 25/11/2018 21:43

But clearly kid is not only defined as baby goat ppl are not so stupid as to not realise that, and so its not the reason ppl are using the term with reference to children.

People are not stupid enough to think that's the reference you are making when using the term kid

Pimpernell · 25/11/2018 21:44

Haha, I’m sorry but I’m one of the same camp, and I know it’s U, I always correct them, she’s a child, not a baby goat.

I suppose it's a handy way to flag up to people early on that you're a pedantic bore.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 25/11/2018 22:11

An ill-informed, pedantic bore.

Ineedtobehappy · 25/11/2018 22:18

🙄 YOU AND YOUR KID NEED TO GET A GRIP 🙄

ChristmasSprite · 25/11/2018 22:21

Tis such utter rubbish! Kid does not mean baby goat used in that context, clearly! So why ppl choose to say that is completely meaningless snobbery.
Lie the last two posts, yes just pedantic and boorish

ChristmasSprite · 25/11/2018 22:22

Also, JOKE POST

ChristmasSprite · 25/11/2018 22:22