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AIBU TO DISLIKE PEOPLE WHO CALL CHILDREN 'KIDS'

275 replies

SuzieCath · 25/11/2018 02:01

Just that really. I just find it unpleasant and my DD7 corrects people she has heard on TV call children kids as she knows that 'kids' are baby goats.

OP posts:
Mum2jenny · 25/11/2018 22:23

I call all children .'Kids' it's not a derogatory term. Just get a life if it's offending you!

I know most ppl do not keep goats as family members, so it can't be too confusing for most people.

Scardanelli · 25/11/2018 22:23

Yes, OP, YABU. I hate, loathe, detest children being referred to as 'kids". But one of my loveliest friends does it. For that reason alone, it's fine. I think your DD might need a lesson in manners, OP.

eggncress · 25/11/2018 22:33

Loads of people refer to children as kids and they’re not going to stop because you don’t like it.
You have your opinion, others have theirs so YANBU to not like it. YABU to expect others to change because you don’t like it though.

PebbleDashed · 25/11/2018 22:50

My kids are lovely, and relaxed. Your children are far too uptight and restricted. I also use the term little kiddies. And what's with the caps?

Yidette86 · 25/11/2018 23:13

I think I'd find your "kid" annoying tbh and I don't mean to be rude but I can just imagine it now... It's a common term used and there's no need for anyone to "correct" people or get so bothered about it. There's more annoying things in life surely?

tinselfest · 25/11/2018 23:41

While my late and lovely DM would have agreed with you OP, I find people calling fully-grown adult women 'girls' far more irritating. Especially when done in the sort of put-down condescending way as used by middle-aged boys men.

Bojangles33 · 25/11/2018 23:43

😂

chipsandgin · 26/11/2018 00:01

OP NEVER CAME BACK THEN...

(apologies for shouting, I imagine she and her kid are off incorrectly ‘correcting’ people’s use of language like a pair of misguided not-that-pedantic-because-they-we’re-wrong-in-the-first-place lexicographer‘super’heroes...& perhaps if we shout they may hear us...)

chipsandgin · 26/11/2018 00:01

Oh blimey. ‘Were’. Damn you autocorrect..

BlackBeltInChildWrangling · 26/11/2018 02:52

Was the OP just kidding? She certainly seemed to be unaware of that well-known expression 'kids should be seen and not heard'.

You can't kid a kidder. I suspect she'd been out getting squiffy in Kidderminster before posting.

She has not come back - I kid you not.

Monty27 · 26/11/2018 03:04

Kiddiewinks? That's cute Grin

BlackBeltInChildWrangling · 26/11/2018 03:13

Kiddiwinks only on a very good day. Wink

thighofrelief · 26/11/2018 03:21

What about your other 6 DDs? Do they mind?

thighofrelief · 26/11/2018 03:23

But i was being obtuse there, trying to get down with the kids innit.

BlackBeltInChildWrangling · 26/11/2018 04:02

thigh Grin

Some suggested corrections to prevent dislike and shouting from the OP and DD7/DD(7):

Nicole Childman
Diary of a Wimpy Child
Milky Bar Child
Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Child
Karate Child
Cisco Child

I feel some goat jokes coming on.

thighofrelief · 26/11/2018 04:16

belt careful not to get OP's goat!

BlackBeltInChildWrangling · 26/11/2018 04:27

You're right, thigh. The OP probably won't appreciate being the butt of our puns.

🐐

RedWineIsFabulous · 26/11/2018 04:47

Not kidding you here but I don’t see it as an issue.

Now... I’m off to eat that lovely green grass on the other side of the bridge before that troll gets me.

Grin
Clothrabbit · 26/11/2018 10:08

YABU. It's a perfectly normal expression. I remember someone disagreeing with me on a thread once about something to do with children, and she picked up on the fact that I'd used the expression 'kids' and somehow that proved I had a derogatory attitude towards children Confused.

Letsmoveondude · 26/11/2018 10:12

Grin pimpernell.

thighofrelief · 26/11/2018 10:45

I think the OP is a right cow. I've heard cows and goats have beef from way back.

UnrelentingFruitScoffer · 26/11/2018 10:46

Kids are baby goats.

Yidette86 · 26/11/2018 14:40

Just a couple of definitions... It's possible for a word to have more than one meaning Hmm

AIBU TO DISLIKE PEOPLE WHO CALL CHILDREN 'KIDS'
TheDarkPassenger · 26/11/2018 14:46

I’m mostly imagining that it doesn’t matter if you don’t like people cause you don’t sound incredibly likeable yourself.

multivac · 26/11/2018 14:51

"Child, my only child/
You look so small you've gone so quiet/
I know you know what I'm about/
I won't deny it"

Yeah, that would have been much better, Chrissie...

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