To be peed off my daughters driving instructor always asks to use our loo first FOR A NO 2!!!

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So basically yeah every week he turns up desperate for the loo and needs to go . He does a crap then the driving lesson.
I've had enough I have toilet OCD and have to stop everything to bleach all over . My toilet is just for family I don't like it at all .
I want to tell him no never again so don't ask again

This has been done to death.

I never fail to be amazed by those who are disgusted by people using a toilet as it was meant to be used

Again?

You bleach everything because someone had a crap in the toilet? Bloody hell - what do you think is going to happen? Shit fumes will rise up and grab you by the throat whilst wafting ebola virus over you? Grip - get one.

Change the driving lesson to an hour later?! He's obvs very regular!

Well it makes a difference from a builder or supermarket delivery person.

Maybe it would be better if your DDs instructor was 15 minutes late for every lesson because he had to pop off to the nearest supermarket/garage/McDonalds etc?

When you say OCD do you mean you actually suffer from obsessive compulsive disorder or do you just like a clean loo? I had postnatal OCD and it really is a horrible mental illness so if you do have OCD I would personally change the lesson time and see if it changes anything. If you don't have OCD please don't use the term so flippantly and unless your daughter is missing part of her lesson I don't see a problem.

Is it her driving OP?

God this has been done to death on here!

It’s a toilet, it’s meant to be used for this.

What is toilet ocd? You either have been confirmed by a medical professional as having ocd or you don’t

If you don't have OCD please don't use the term so flippantly

Yes. As someone who is diagnosed with OCD I can't stress this enough.

Ask him to shit in a bag in the garden next time. Do we have to think of everything?

Oh for gods sake, people poo in toilets!!!

Open the window and get over it

No he doesn't.

Goodbye.

If it really bothers you, have someone stationed in the toilet just before he comes. He can't use it if it's already occupied.

Get him to pick her up from school and be dropped off in town at some activity.

Just reschedule at a different fixed time.

Ooh it’s not an awful dirty workman like it usually is, a driving instructor is a new one 🤔

I’m happy with allowing anyone occasional lavatorial hospitality in my home, but I’d be at every week. It’s like he’s gotten too comfy and wants to mark your territory. It’s weird.
Break the pattern and have your daughter outside with the front door closed or at the end of the road to meet him. Or say “sorry, there’s a problem with the downstairs loo and we are waiting for the plumber” and don’t offer use of any other loos.

I would be more worried if he regularly asked for it AFTER the driving lesson.

How's your DD's driving? Maybe it's nervous tummy about the lesson.