A POLITE HEADS UP THAT THIS IS A LONG FUCKING POST (& lots of names so probably lots of asterisks hanging around the joint). BUT IT'S AS IMPORTANT - TO ME ANYWAY - AS IT IS LONG SO PLEASE STICK WITH IT 
spannablue Sat 10-Nov-18 18:58:37
'Boring rehash of transphobia'... 'boring, boring, boring'
Shriek Sat 10-Nov-18 20:32:56
'Oh
Sophia reflects my view too @spannablue Do you take responsibility for what insult you have caused with your words here?'
@Shriek raises a good point @spannablue - do you take responsibility? Or are you just a keyboard warrior, happy to push your insane agenda - that so literally does not remotely square with reality - and giving not one shiny shit about the real people you hurt on the way?
The people whose experiences you would dismiss; the lived realities you would claim are non-existent? The - beyond de facto valid - fears that stem from those lived realities? That you would sweep away with a casual 'boring, boring, boring'? Truly, where are you right now? A real woman with real experience and real trans friends and real concerns has called your dismissal out and your response is what exactly? As unless this cross posts with that response, it's been zero.
Nothing, nada. Yet you would cause such harm with your offensive casualness?
No. You don't get to do both.
Either dismiss me then address me in response to my responding to you, or respect me and my (and so, so, many other women's too) lived reality and don't post such trite, dismissive, bollocks in the first place. But not both - not posting such casual dismissive and rude shite and then just running to silencio. Or if you do then please recognise precisely what that comments about your asserted position? Yeah, quite... 
Prawnofthepatriarchy Sat 10-Nov-18 21:00:55
'What a powerful, eloquent post, SophiaLovesSummer. Thanks.'
Thank you @Prawnofthepatriarchy, I do really appreciate that. I don't appreciate the fact I've outed myself so hugely and am gonna have to name change (as I don't want to be defined by the sexual assaults I've endured as there is way, way, more to me than that) but I'm not sorry I called @spannablue out.
As if we do not call this bullshit out, there will be even more 'me's' in the future: If we gift auto access to women's safe spaces to men who simply have to breathe the words 'I ID as a woman' then I guarantee you that there will be more of 'me.'
As, hands down, I do not know a single woman who has not (at best FFS) been sexually harassed and (at worst) assualted or raped and I'm not even talking about the girls/women who were as vulnerable as I was as a child and young woman. And if that is the level of assault we face with safe spaces in place, then God (who I also don't even believe him so it kinda says something that I'm invoking him/her right now) help all of womankind once access is a free for all 
For the reason above, I'm name changing after this thread but I urge you all to please keep fighting - to call out this Emperor's New Clothes madness that engulfs us right now; to call out the @spannablues and @JAPEBs of this world who would so casually remove our rights and do us such harm and who are so patently not remotely fucking affected by what they are prepared to indeed foist upon us actual women.
And for absolute clarity, I'm not name changing as I'm ashamed - as the shame of my various assaults lies with the people who allowed me to be so vulnerable; then with the c*nts with dicks who abused that access via vulnerability; and in turn abused me.
I'm name changing for the very opposite reason; I refuse to be defined by them (predators or assaults). I refuse to let @spannablue getting a rise out of me make me be 'recognised' as the girl with the multiple sexual assaults, to stop me just talking about Christmas or Strictly or whatever shit I want to talk about without people 'recognising' me as that girl and then young woman who was so abused. I just want to make that point really fucking clearly before I sign off from SophiaLovesSummer 
More power to each of you and please, don't ever stop fighting this insanity and this (additional) slew of assaults just waiting to happen 