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To say it's NOT pronounced like this?

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DaanSaaf · 11/10/2018 21:31

Cutlery.

Cut-le-ree
Not cuttle-ree

Sets my teeth on edge. What pronunciations annoy you?

OP posts:
Yabbers · 12/10/2018 13:40

If any of my DC's came home and told me they were being taught jai instead of jay

DD’s P4 teacher did. I have so many things to talk to the heedie about, I let that one go. DD never said it.

I’ve heard Jamp too. Hate it!

YeTalkShiteHen · 12/10/2018 13:43

buscaution your inability to understand doesn’t make it wrong, it makes you wrong.

I see I hit a nerve there. Your posts have come across in a very snobbish way. Therefore I said what I said.

Interesting how you bristled though isn’t it? Too close to home?

Chocolatedeficitdisorder · 12/10/2018 13:44

The letter is JAY.

Nope, that's a word.

The letter is 'J'. How you pronounce it depends on where you come from.

mundungus · 12/10/2018 13:45

Dear god. Non rhotic speakers often use an r after a vowel to (try to) denote it as a long vowel “phonetically”. Absolutely no “rrrrr” sound implied - because we neither hear nor pronounce the “r” in a word like morning, harbour etc. I know that’s mind boggling for those of you who do Grin

And for my fellow non rhotics: please try to understand the very, very simple fact that to a Scot, for instance, the “r” in e.g. morning is loud and clear. Born doesn’t rhyme with faun in those accents.

Chocolatedeficitdisorder · 12/10/2018 13:49
  • Non rhotic speakers often use an r after a vowel to (try to) denote it as a long vowel “phonetically”. Absolutely no “rrrrr” sound implied - because we neither hear nor pronounce the “r” in a word like morning, harbour etc. I know that’s mind boggling for those of you who do grin

And for my fellow non rhotics: please try to understand the very, very simple fact that to a Scot, for instance, the “r” in e.g. morning is loud and clear. Born doesn’t rhyme with faun in those accents.*

That's a good explanation.

YeTalkShiteHen · 12/10/2018 13:50

How you pronounce it depends on where you come from

Absolutely. And while we’re on about apparently being unable to change the pronunciation of letters, I think you’ll find ch in Scotland sounds very different.

Thatstheendofmytether · 12/10/2018 13:53

Auction &Awsome are the same sound.

That sounds the same to me too but "or" and "awe" sound completely different.

I'm sitting here try to say them in an English accent (not sure where my English accent is from 😂) I could see how they sound the same. Like "ordinary" and "awesome" . Am I on to something or completely wrong?

Chocolatedeficitdisorder · 12/10/2018 14:01

I could see how they sound the same. Like "ordinary" and "awesome"

Then it would be awdinary and awesome, which is perfectly understandable.

Does that mean that the word 'ordained' becomes 'awdained', and 'order' become 'aw-da' ?

Actually, the speaker in the House of Commons does say 'Aw-da'!

I reckon in the Scottish parliament, the speaker says Orrr-derrr.

whiskeysourpuss · 12/10/2018 14:02

Absolutely. And while we’re on about apparently being unable to change the pronunciation of letters, I think you’ll find ch in Scotland sounds very different.

Dinnae start with that one - my brothers all take the piss cause I can't say loch right except when I say the name of my hometown which has loch in it Hmm

YeTalkShiteHen · 12/10/2018 14:04

whiskeysourpuss it’s in my last name so a particular bugbear of mine Blush

Maybe it’s because it’s been drummed into me for so many years it’s just habit now Grin

Bumbledop · 12/10/2018 14:08

Ve as of. It sets me teeth on edge and all my family do it!

ThisIsTheFirstStep · 12/10/2018 14:17

I think the ‘r’ thing is a misunderstanding between Scots and Engs (as I like to call them).

If I see ‘orkshin’ I immediately read it with an r. Hard hard r. It wasn’t til I studied to be a teacher that I learnt that for English speakers would pronounce that like (for Scots) ‘ockshin’ and that they have an extra sound or two we don’t have.

It’s a genuine misunderstanding so not sure why the Engs are getting snotty and acting like Scottish people are being deliberately obtuse. I really don’t spend that much of my life thinking about English accents, delightful as you all are.

ThisIsTheFirstStep · 12/10/2018 14:18

So bumble how do you pronounce it? They’re both prounounced ‘schwa + v’ aren’t they?

buscaution · 12/10/2018 14:27

buscaution your inability to understand doesn’t make it wrong, it makes you wrong.

There is nothing to understand. The Alphabet doesn't have various pronunciations:

see I hit a nerve there. Your posts have come across in a very snobbish way. Therefore I said what I said.

Not sure why. One thing I am not is a snob.

Interesting how you bristled though isn’t it? Too close to home?

What do you mean too close to home? I don't understand that? Is it supposed to be a dig at me personally? If so explain it please, it's lost on me.

buscaution · 12/10/2018 14:29

Nope, that's a word.

Indeed it is. But for the purposes of explaining how we pronounce things, the ENTIRE thread through, words and phonetics have been used. So don't pick me up for something that has literally happened a hundred times over already:

The letter is 'J'. How you pronounce it depends on where you come from.

It does not. The letter is J. The sound is JAY.

Chocolatedeficitdisorder · 12/10/2018 14:31

The sound is JAY.

Again, for the part of the English speaking world you come from, it is.

For some of us - it is not.

buscaution · 12/10/2018 14:33

Again, for the part of the English speaking world you come from, it is.

For some of us - it is not.

Again, the alphabet does not have regional variations.

OvO · 12/10/2018 14:34

So or and awe are the same for Englishlanders?

My last name starts with Or and it’s a definite R sound (roll that
R baby!) would English people say it as Awe/Au? Or would they make an effort to use the R sound as it’s a name? I need to know if I should correct people or let it go. Grin

YeTalkShiteHen · 12/10/2018 14:35

There is nothing to understand

Apparently not for you, no.

One thing I am not is a snob

If ye say so. Your posts say different.

Your just making yourself look a bit silly now tbh

buscaution · 12/10/2018 14:37

One thing I am not is a snob

ye say so. Your posts say different.

Not intended.

Your just making yourself look a bit silly now tbh

Ok.

whiskeysourpuss · 12/10/2018 14:37

Again, the alphabet does not have regional variations.

I think this thread proves that it might... at least in the case of J

prettybird · 12/10/2018 14:39

Much as I hate to hear the letter "J" described as "J-eye" which grates on my ear like chalk scraping on a blackboard and refused ever to let ds say J-eye, I'm not going to be arrogant enough to say it is "wrong".

There are areas where J-eye is taught/said. It is no more wrong than saying "Z" has to be pronounced "Zed". The Americans would dispute that.

English is a living language and has variations.

Another example of different pronunciations is that to a Scot (or maybe I should say "most Scots" Wink), the supposed tongue twister "which witch is which?" doesn't make sense as "which" and "witch" are obviously pronounced differently, as Scots automatically aspirate the "wh".

Chocolatedeficitdisorder · 12/10/2018 14:40

The American people say Zee instead of Z and I expect they believe that to be correct. In fact, a lot of American English spellings are closer to original English than current English.

buscaution, why are others wrong and you're right?

Chocolatedeficitdisorder · 12/10/2018 14:41

*Zee instead of Zed

BumDisease · 12/10/2018 14:43

"Again, the alphabet does not have regional variations."

Again... says who? Please direct us to the stone tablet that has "THE LETTER J IS PRONOUNCED "JAY" engraved on it?

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