So- we're a close family- I'm 30 and still see all cousins regularly.
In July me and other cousins on this side of family were invited to - we'll call her Jenny- Jenny's hen do next year in Vegas!
They are due to book the hen do in November this year and not getting married until 2020.
Anyway- me and my sister responded we would like to come but will know for definite nearer time as depends ok budget.
Fast forward to last week and she has sent out save the dates - as my parents and aunties and uncles received them.
We have a group chat and one had sent a pic of the save the date and I said 'hey where's mine' - and only said this as I never imagine for one second I wouldn't be invited.
And her response was 'they are only for the day guests'
No explanation, no sorry etc etc.
Have been informed by another relative they are trying to cut costs as getting married in an expensive venue. Fabulous.
Aibu to assume I would have been invited to the day if invited to spend thousands of pounds going to Vegas for her bloody hen do!!??