I have a great story of an experience with a medium.
I went to a local spritualist church, I've been told by so many mediums that I have 'the gift', which I am inclined to believe, given all the first hand experiences I've had, but I'm just not brave enough to dabble in it.
Anyway, these medium nights are in a small community centre, only costs a couple of quid to get in (which covers hall hire) and the level of accuracy and expertise of the mediums can really differ, but I go as I find it fascinating.
So there's this medium, I've never met her or anyone else there before and she comes to me saying she has my Nan with her.
I said that's lovely, but my Nans are both alive (which they were at the time) and said it must be a message for someone else. The lady insists this Nan is there for me and she's not a Great-Gran or family friend, the medium is insisting the spirit is my Nan, even going some way to describe her. Which I can't place.
I say again, it's not my Nan. Not unless one of my Nan's had just passed away that night!
She asked if she could continue with my reading, I agreed and she started off saying I was getting lots of very hurtful and upsetting text messages from a woman called Sue and this Sue was trying to create divides in the family. She added not to worry as the family knew I was "blameless".
This was shocking, as my Mum is called Sue, she's an alcoholic sadly and the drink made her very nasty and abusive, she was being vile to me over text (as I refused to talk to her when she was drinking) and she was telling the family how I was delusional and making things up (I wasn't). So hearing that my family knew I was 'innocent' was great to hear.
She then said there was a close man in my life annoying me at present who would be out of my hair soon. I had my brother living with me and my husband temporarily while between houses and he was doing my head in! 🤣 He moved out a few weeks after the reading.
Then she said I'd move house and change jobs at the same time within six months. I had no intention of doing either. But I got offered a career change at the company I worked for and at that same time, my 10 year relationship with my husband unfortunately broke down and I moved out as I couldnt cope with the stress of rows at home while starting a new job.
She also told me that I had a stomach condition that blighted me. I have chronic IBS.
Then she added that my "Nan" loved me and is with me all the time, even if I don't know if. Even though at this point, I'm still telling her my Nans are alive.
Anyway, end of the night, I help to pack away the folding chairs and the medium who has done another six readings that night after mine comes over to me and taps me on the shoulder.
She goes, "Look, I'm so sorry to be insistent, but this lady won't leave me alone. She's upset and frustrated that you won't acknowledge that's she's your Nan." I shrugged sympathetically and apologise and say I can't make it fit, I spoke to both my Nans that week.
She closes her eyes, takes a few deep breathes, touching my arm and whispers out loud to the ether, "You need to give me a bit more to go on sweetie... "
She then sighs, opens her eyes and says to me, "She's just said the name Anne, she said you will understand Anne."
I said, Anne is my middle name and my Mum's middle name and that we were named after......
Then I shiver and go cold. My Mum was given the middle name Anne after her birth mother, who's Christian name was Anne!! When my Mum was three years old, Anne died and my Mum was adopted. By the lady she still obviously calls Mum to this day and who I call my Nan. Of course, she's all I've ever known as my Nan.
Yes, I knew about my Mum's birth Mum dying when my Mum was three, but on that evening I just
genuinely didn't put two and two together until she said her name.
The medium's face lit up. She said, Anne is telling me she died in her late 40s of a stomach problem, but not the same stomach issues you have, so don't worry. I didn't know the facts, but later found out from family that Anne was 47 and died of Bowel Cancer.
The medium knew more than I bloody did!!
As I was getting ready to leave, the medium said that I may not have met Anne, but that family bond is there and if I ever need her that I just need to call upon her as she is by my side.
It was utterly freaky and yet, so lovely and comforting. She couldn't have ever known what she told me. Blew me away.