AIBU?

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NC (name changed as I don't want this to be outing)

A rhythmless man at church has said he wants to put on a concert to raise some money for shoeless orphans. We shall call him A.

A said to B that they have money to help. B said that the last concert raised some issues but would support them none the less.

C said she didn't want to be forgotten.

Who is BU?

It’s a riddle

@jillian ... I think you have got to the bottom of it.

So sorry OP. As I mentioned, I was super tired last night and for some reason was struggling to follow the thread. In the cold light of day it does of course make perfect sense. I would say YADNBU. I would cancel the concert before it goes the same way as last year’s. The orphans won’t need shoes anyway if you just pray to your god for a mild winter.

m.youtube.com/watch?v=YVT5tPJ2hxM

I found this video of A B and C having a practice. I can understand your reservations Op , they don't all seem to be singing the same hymn . At least the title of the hymn is in keeping with your cause.

Wow, Oddcat. That definitely explains the lack of donations doesn’t it!

At least we can now see what the Op is up against . Is that C in the white hat ?

I think C should read the Lundy Bancroft book and do the Freedom Program- that should help her

@Odd and @magic. Please stop responding with your unhelpful replies.

We actually have a council meeting tonight (I thought it was tomorrow but forgot about the bank holiday and it is, indeed, Wednesday today.)

What? I’m not allowed to join in anymore? I guess at least I know how C feels now!

I only wanted to help the orphans

magic and odd maybe we should form a splinter group and have our own concert, i've still got a bottle of something i was given that i'm happy to donate for a raffle prize, (op didn't take me up on the offer and now i've withdrawn it from her rhythmless shitshow).

Good luck with the council meeting OP. Hope you get to the bottom of this.

I have been in your situation and came out the other side of it. I recall how excruciatingly frustrating it was at the time, especially when C in my situation just wouldn't listen!! C sure could play the tambourine though!

Best of luck

Pinkgirl, I think your comment by about pole dancing around the massive organ was unhelpful am nd you should apologise to the op. Besides it is obvious it was a lap dance.

Installing a pole in a church would be ridiculous. The ceilings are far too high.

I think there's a screw loose somewhere....

We should ask H and J they may know about the bats

J isn’t allowed near the bats any more after unfortunate incident last Easter

I got rhythm, I got music, I got my man
Who could ask for anything more

J isn’t allowed near the bats any more after unfortunate incident last Easter

😂😂😂😂😂🤣

sonic I can assure you the bats did not find it amusing at all. It was unsavoury to say the least.

Namechange

Oh crumbs I think my MIL goes to your church

She was telling me the same story yesterday teatime

Namechange what was this unfortunate incident?

This is why I no longer go to church, far too much drama.

Has anyone managed to get to the bottom of what the f**k the OPs talking about?

A - Wants to throw charity concert.
B - Brings up issues with previous concert (noise) but is happy to help.
C - Is worried they will be forgotten but also wants to help.
Who's being unreasonable? - From the very little information given, no one is being unreasonable.

And if the OP is none of the above people then why does it matter what A,B and C do?

OP you might be getting annoyed about people taking the piss but what do you expect when your question is nonsensical

Spider please don't take it so seriously! 😂

I think it's crystal clear Spider