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AIBU to get pissed off with all the Autumn and Winter "cosy" people

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Alicatz66 · 18/08/2018 23:00

Now that the evenings are getting darker I feel sad that summer is ending .. and pissed off with the "cosy" people !! I hate winter .. what is "cosy" about bumbling about in the dark and scraping ice off your car, getting fat with stodgy food , seeing all the shit sentimental Christmas TV adverts and being pale , corpse like and with drizzled on hair !!! .. this is light hearted but I just don't get it ! .... I've stayed away from the " We hate summer" threads as instructed as they were not for me ... so now it's my turn !!

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TakemedowntoPotatoCity · 19/08/2018 12:59

I don't like Autumn much, because it's the start of another year of dreadful school runs/parking nightmares, autistic DD hates Halloween and fireworks, both DD and me have birthdays which means planning (which I find stressful as an introvert) and getting another year older for me, bleeding money on birthdays and insurance renewals which always seem to come around this time, rain, grey skies and general dread as we head on the downward slope to the most awful season of all (winter).

Spring and summer lover here, if you hadn't guessed.

BitchQueen90 · 19/08/2018 13:00

Because some of us don't live in properties with fireplaces and decent heating. That's why I don't like it. It gets bloody chilly at mine.

ilovesooty · 19/08/2018 13:06

I get really annoyed with the people who go on about the magic of snow and sub zero temperatures when it then transpires that they don't have to commute to work.

Yeah, we get it. You can stay at home. Many of us can't.

Sallystyle · 19/08/2018 13:07

YANBU

I am gutted summer is over. Well, it might as well be over. No proper sun for two weeks, just wind and temps of 22c. It is shit.

Winter is fucking horrible. I hate wearing loads of clothes. I hate having to defrost the car at 5.30am. Hate being bone cold all the time because I can never warm up.

Hate Autumn. Hate wearing jumpers and shit. I want hot and sun all year around. We had a lovely month or so of summer which was amazing but it is not enough, now we have the rest of the year with dull grey weather.

YASNBU

cardibach · 19/08/2018 13:09

It’s interesting how many of the winter lovers rave about lighting the fire, wrapping up and drinking hot chocolate...so...you set about making yourself as warm as the weather you purport to hate. This seems odd. Why wouldn’t you enjoy being that warm at zero cost?

MilkTrayLimeBarrel · 19/08/2018 13:10

And as if the approaching autumn isn't bad enough, the pubs and restaurants have already started the 'Book now for Christmas' advertising, complete with tinsel and fake snow. Aaargh! Surely they can wait for August Bank Holiday to be over first?

Lookingforadvice123 · 19/08/2018 13:11

YABU! Normally I love the summer but this year I was suffering with horrendous first trimester nausea/vomiting, and the heatwave was never ending. I was unable to leave the house for days at a time as I was sick enough in the house with a fan on without setting foot into the blistering oven-style heat. So this year I'm 100% ready for the A/W!

But even so, on a normal, non-pregnant year, I'm always happy when the seasons change. I hate the rain but I love crisp, fresh autumn days. Plus the fashion is so much easier.

Happypuppy · 19/08/2018 13:17

I’m with you OP, I loved this summer it was endless taking trips out and getting tanned with little effort even while wearing factor 20.

The real end of summer for me will be mid October when we come back from ten days in Greece though.

I do love December however.

Alicatz66 · 19/08/2018 13:17

ilovesooty .. I hear you .. my commute was an absolute nightmare this winter. Couldn't even get the car off the drive .. 45 minute ice walk to the station in walking boots... then trains cancelled ... people get understandably stressed when they have no way of getting home other than hours of walking through ice !! ... really cosy that is !!

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Alicatz66 · 19/08/2018 13:19

cardibach Totally agree .. I hate woolly jumpers and scarves !!!

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JacquesHammer · 19/08/2018 13:22

Yeah, we get it. You can stay at home. Many of us can't

I work from home. I also have a child to take to school everyday and meetings anything up to 3 hours away.

You just adapt. Far preferable to commute in colder weather!

amusedbush · 19/08/2018 13:22

I fucking hate summer. Apart from that hideous heatwave where it hotter than Satan’s arsecrack it has just been stuffy, humid and sweaty for weeks.

Autumn is my favourite time of the year. I got a bit over excited and bought a new jumper today Grin

SinglePringle · 19/08/2018 13:22

I too hate jumpers, scarves and hot chocolate. Give me shorts, dresses and iced water!

cardibach · 19/08/2018 13:29

Far preferable to commute in colder weather! How do you work that out, Jacques ? Ice in the windscreen. Steering wheel so co,d it hurts. Ice on the roads, often masquerading as not-ice and causing accidents. Dark in the morning and coming home which adds to risks. In what way is that easier than an (admittedly very, this year) hot car until the air con/open window cool it down?
I disagree with Looking too - Plus the fashion is so much easier It really isn’t. What could be easier than loose linen trousers and floaty cottton tops? Effortlessly elegant even for me and I’m very overweight. Winter is much tougher to get right.

AfterSchoolWorry · 19/08/2018 13:29

Hot chocolate I don't get. I've tried it. Never got past a few sips.

'Cosy' blankets are itchy.

JacquesHammer · 19/08/2018 13:33

How do you work that out, Jacques ?

How do I work out my preference? What an odd question!

Ice in the windscreen I use efficient de-icer
Steering wheel so co,d it hurts I wear gloves
Ice on the roads, often masquerading as not-ice and causing accidents. Dark in the morning and coming home which adds to risks I drive to the conditions. Plus I use winter tires and have a vehicle that is excellent in winter conditions.

I absolutely love autumn/winter whether I’m in or out. Far better for my health.

Nobody is unreasonable to enjoy a different time of year. Anybody would be unreasonable to tell others they’re wrong!

Sallystyle · 19/08/2018 13:36

It’s interesting how many of the winter lovers rave about lighting the fire, wrapping up and drinking hot chocolate...so...you set about making yourself as warm as the weather you purport to hate. This seems odd. Why wouldn’t you enjoy being that warm at zero cost?

I know, it doesn't make sense.

I don't know hardly anyone IRL who loves winter, yet MN is full of winter lovers who paint such a romantic picture of it. I do not recognise this romantic picture at all.

Reality is it is wet all the bloody time. It is dark when you leave for work, dark when you come home. Driving in the ice/snow is not fun. WTF is cosy about that? You might be cosy all the time if you don't work and rarely have to leave the house. It is just months and months of dullness.

I think there is hardly anything better in life than sitting in the sun reading, or sitting outside with friends and family. In winter I don't want to go out and socialise because everything is too much effort and I hate being stuck indoors.

MeyMary · 19/08/2018 13:37

@AfterSchoolWorry

My mother both makes wonderful chocolate. But it's more like a hot chocolate pudding, tbh...

It's great :))! And so chocolate! Brew

MeyMary · 19/08/2018 13:37

But milk with some chocolate powder isn't something I'm too fond of either.

JacquesHammer · 19/08/2018 13:38

I love it when it’s grey. I adore the backdrop of dark skies against the stark, industrial north. I could stare at it for hours.

AnExcellentUsername · 19/08/2018 13:51

Voluntarily being warm at home is totally different. If it gets too much I can... turn the heating off. Can't do that outside and can only remove so much clothing before being arrested.

JynxaSmoochum · 19/08/2018 13:58

Seasonal food.
Summer: stawberries
Winter: sprouts

Summer wins Grin

Iamagreyhoundhearmeroar · 19/08/2018 13:59

It’s been a hell of a long time since we were restricted to seasonal food...

JynxaSmoochum · 19/08/2018 14:29

Yey. Sprouts all year Grin

I prefer to buy fruits like strawberries in season because they taste better and get properly ripe rather than being picked prematurely for travel, and it's a token gesture at reducing food miles.

Picking a fresh strawberry, warm and juicy from the sunshine and immediately devouring it is one of life's true pleasures.

RoseWhiteTips · 19/08/2018 14:42

Season of mists and mellow fruitfulness,
Close bosom-friend of the maturing sun;
Conspiring with him how to load and bless
With fruit the vines that round the thatch-eaves run;
To bend with apples the mossed cottage-trees,
And fill all fruit with ripeness to the core;
To swell the gourd, and plump the hazel shells
With a sweet kernel; to set budding more,
And still more, later flowers for the bees,
Until they think warm days will never cease,
For Summer has o'er-brimmed their clammy cell.

Who hath not seen thee oft amid thy store?
Sometimes whoever seeks abroad may find
Thee sitting careless on a granary floor,
Thy hair soft-lifted by the winnowing wind;
Or on a half-reaped furrow sound asleep,
Drowsed with the fume of poppies, while thy hook
Spares the next swath and all its twined flowers;
And sometimes like a gleaner thou dost keep
Steady thy laden head across a brook;
Or by a cider-press, with patient look,
Thou watchest the last oozings, hours by hours.

Where are the songs of Spring? Ay, where are they?
Think not of them, thou hast thy music too,---
While barred clouds bloom the soft-dying day,
And touch the stubble-plains with rosy hue;
Then in a wailful choir, the small gnats mourn
Among the river sallows, borne aloft
Or sinking as the light wind lives or dies;
And full-grown lambs loud bleat from hilly bourn;
Hedge-crickets sing; and now with treble soft
The redbreast whistles from a garden-croft,
And gathering swallows twitter in the skies.

by John Keats

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