Posted thread yesterday about EX using my car! Have received the texts now! Need all the MN advice please!

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So my lovely MN this is the text I received 5 mins ago for ignoring his 5 calls; EX does not even know any of DD & DS friends ever!
Please help on the perfect reply

(My name) its pathetic, u gna hav to talk to me, grow up was jus gna talk about kids, its stupid , oviously there somthing else going on , cant b assed with the childish games injoy ,who ever it is, when u decide to grow up ring me need stuff. Am not putting my life on hold anymre i did best , u hav to many issues an u cant adress any, u have just lost the man who loves u , sometimes people go on an on an pick faults with there loved ones ,then realise when they gone that they had it all an thats whats gna happen to u, i tried to help u but u cant do it u need to c someone about way u are from the past ,coz u cant c way u are, ring later about kids , an also am gna ask (my single hairdressers name)if her kids want to spend time with (DD) over 6 weeks , an (DS) friends as am gna move in my own home an get my life back an somone that apreciates me. U cant c who i am ur to messed up,i deserve to be happy ,ring at lunch 4 kids

It reads as if someone threw a load of alphabetti spaghetti at his phone and hoped for the best.

I am presuming you will ignore this semi literate moneygrabber?

Is he still whinging on OP?

Did that dickhead actually ask you to do his bloody washing? Did I read this correctly?

Perhaps if he had some literacy skills, he'd be able to get ahead a bit...

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Christ, he's thick. You deserve better than than semi-literate wordpuke, OP. Much better.

Hope you're OK , OP?

Ignore any posts that don't work for you op - people don't really know your situation but it sounded like you were really getting there.

Its ok if you slipped back into old ways though - it all takes time and practice.

He is just all kinds of wrong. Glad you are standing up to him.

I hope he speaks more intelligently then he texts, cuz dear God... "we need to go amideation"

Also I don't think meditation works in situations where DV happened.

Lets be nice 4 kids ok ,bY

Translation: now you've shut off my access to your money, I'm going to steal half that the state gives the children so I can fritter it on myself.

What an arse. Ignore him again. If there's been DV you aren't meant to attend mediation - if you get a letter indicating he's tried to arrange it, get your solicitor to contact them and say so. He won't take you to court. He's just desperately casting around for anything he can find to get you under his thumb.

Your ignoring him is working an absolute treat. He really, really can't bear it.

Did he see the DC on Tuesday?

And I hope your solicitor was helpful

All I could make out from that garbage was he thinks he is entitled to half the DLA and needs his clothes washing. Oh and he needs some food and fags. I would bag all his shit up, even if it is dirty and let him know it is outside the door ready for him to collect. Let the entitled git do his own bloody laundry. After that you don't need to respond to anything else apart from texts about the DCs.

Stay strong OP. This lowlife knob is a waste of space. As others have suggested contact your solicitor about how to put contact with DCs and maintenance payments on a formal basis.