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To feel sickened that this man is being referred to in this way (WARNING UPSETTING CONTENT)

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bigoldscaredycat · 18/07/2018 06:21

This man raped a three month old baby boy to the point where the baby needed corrective surgery.

He is now in a women’s prison in Canada where he has beaten up a female inmate.

THIS is where self ID leads. Men like this being incarcerated with women and their crimes being counted as female.

torontosun.com/news/national/feds-deny-paying-for-convicted-pedophiles-implants

www.newwestrecord.ca/dangerous-offender-in-b-c-loses-appeal-for-day-or-full-parole-1.23279132

Go on, Mumsnet, delete me for deliberately misgendering a male baby rapist.

THIS.IS.A.MAN.

Perhaps this story will illustrate why feminists are so up in arms about self ID.

I would love to see even the staunchest anti-women transactivist tell me that this person is a woman and that they belong in a women’s prison.

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KimCheesePickle · 18/07/2018 07:43

Male woman?

So that'll be like those well known creatures bovine cats?

Nonsense

TheGoldenWolfFleece · 18/07/2018 07:44

@Sleepyslops

Dont you think it matters that a rapist is in a female prison?

flippyfloppyflower · 18/07/2018 07:44

Booboobooboo84 I am reading all views but to use the expression you bitches in an argument is unacceptable (although it probably shows you in your true colours)

Soubriquet · 18/07/2018 07:45

And more men are violent because of how we raise our children. Boys are taught be tough, fight and not show emotions other than anger. It’s no surprise that when they grow they still are only able to express themselves with anger and react violently

Oh the poor ickle men. They just can't help themselves. It's how they were raised poor likkle mens

MarklesMerkin · 18/07/2018 07:45

So none of you are talking about the victim still. - What is there to say of the victim? The crime has been commited, the victim has endured a horrific ordeal and injury, it goes without saying that people on this thread thinks that's disgusting/horrific/heartbreaking etc but we can't rewind time and prevent that crime occurring.
We CAN make our voices heard about trans women in female prisons to try and protect those females from having a crime commited against them - or do they not matter?

bigoldscaredycat · 18/07/2018 07:46

It matters because this person has been placed in a women’s prison and has access to the vulnerable women in there. One of whom he has assaulted violently.

It matters because the media is gaslighting us by reporting on this person as a woman.

It matters because this will cloud crime statistics to suggest women are committing these crimes.

It matters because a change in law is being proposed that will further enable men like this to be treated as women.

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TheGoldenWolfFleece · 18/07/2018 07:46

I guess it's women's fault for raising their sons to be aggressive and violent too. It's always women's fault.

LunaTrap · 18/07/2018 07:46

I wonder if the posters on this thread so desperate to respect a baby rapist's gender identity would tell this man's victim that they were raped by a woman. Would you gaslight a rape victim in the same despicable way that you are posting here? Would you deny this victim the right to have the crime against them accurately recorded and reported? The baby who needed corrective surgery due to damage caused by a rapist's PENIS was not raped by a woman. And just when I think I have seen it all, with the deluded nonsense that people will parrot, along comes this thread. Fucking hell.

Candyflip · 18/07/2018 07:48

Oh read the full thread now. Boo what makes Tara Desousa a woman?

bigoldscaredycat · 18/07/2018 07:48

Very telling that the main thing that skaross is upset about is that my post is transphobic rather than the fact a baby was raped.

There it is again, writ large. All that matters is trans rights. Everything else is secondary.

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Daddynosharing · 18/07/2018 07:48

Sex only matters because we always have let it affect how we raise people, what we expect of them and how we treat them @slightaggrandising

Loopytiles · 18/07/2018 07:48

“using this one example to block rights for a group of people “

It is one example: there are already many others, including of transwomen in womens prisons attacking other prisoners.

What group of people has “rights” that we wish to “block”: male sex offenders? Male criminals?

Why do their wishes outweigh womens’ need and preference for single sex facilities and services? When these people have penises and many (as sex offenders) present a risk to women?

Candyflip · 18/07/2018 07:49

Skaross.. what? How is this the same? Have you actually thought this through?

bigoldscaredycat · 18/07/2018 07:50

Oh and skaross, this isn’t a lone example. There are many more.

But you carry on defending this man’s RIGHT to be in a women’s prison.

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Mummyoflittledragon · 18/07/2018 07:50

Boo
Of course we cared deeply about the victim. The sex of the perpetrator does matter. We are talking about the wider picture. Not this victim in isolation.

We are talking about the way statistics are reported. If the stats are skewed the police cannot profile correctly and work to keep the public safe.

We are talking about natal women in women’s prison, who have the right to feel safe.

We are talking about the destruction of the fabric of society, which will make rape and attacks like this more likely to happen not less because a minority of vociferous male bodied individuals hell bent on getting revenge on natal females are increasingly being given free reign.

Excuse us for not just centring on the one victim. We are also concerned with all the other victims.

SlightAggrandising · 18/07/2018 07:50

@Daddynosharing you talked about gender earlier. Do you know the difference?

Why are you so keen on making Male violence the problem of women in prison?

BeefyCakes · 18/07/2018 07:51

It's sickening that he and his crime now shows on women's crime stats.

It's sickening that after his crime he was able to say he is a woman and get into a women's prison.

He is a dangerous paedophile, he shouldn't have been allowed to transition during his sentence.

Regardless of chopping his dick off and getting boobs, he is a he. And a very dangerous one at that.

FrozenMargarita17 · 18/07/2018 07:51

What the actual fuck. I can't believe this has been allowed to happen

Sleepyslops · 18/07/2018 07:52

I would have thought that as the crime was committed when this person was still identifying as male then it would have been recorded as such.

I also know that when recording crime stats it's not just male or female options that you can choose from... also (without wanting to be too outing) there are special "flags" for persons in this kind of situation. However to disclose the transgender fact without good reason can also be classed as an offence.

Booboobooboo84 · 18/07/2018 07:53

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Hangingaroundtheportal · 18/07/2018 07:54

I want one of the 'but she is a woman don't ya know' brigade to explain the exact basis on which this person is a woman.

Of course it fucking matters if its a man or a woman who committed this crime, what is wrong with you.

Tanaqui · 18/07/2018 07:54

I agree with Luna- the victim deserves the truth. The child was not raped by a woman. To say otherwise is incredibly unfair and damaging.

Sleepyslops · 18/07/2018 07:55

We are talking about the way statistics are reported. If the stats are skewed the police cannot profile correctly and work to keep the public safe.

The Police can profile correctly. The records WILL NOT state that this person is female. It will show that they are transgender.

ToeToToe · 18/07/2018 07:55

Skaross - Ian Huntley is now reportedly identifying as a woman - but was clearly a man when he murdered 2 girls.

Should Ian Huntley be moved to a women's prison - when he would share showers with other female prisoners?

LunaTrap · 18/07/2018 07:56

Booboo you didn't only defend their right to 'identify as a woman', you repeatedly stated that they ARE a woman. Would you tell a rape victim that they were raped by a woman if that was how the perp identified?

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