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To think ex’s new girlfriend is a cheeky fucker?

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CandiedPeach · 15/07/2018 20:29

Posting to vent more than anything because I don’t want to say anything to my ex about it.

Ex has a new gf (although not sure he’s technically calling her a gf). He’s been seeing her about 6 weeks though and she’s been out with his friends a few times, some of his friends I’m also very good friends with.

So I’ve been told by two mutual friends who I do trust. That the new gf has made some comments around how much maintenance ex pays me. Along the lines of ‘can you believe he pays her xxx amount, make no wonder she can go on holiday all the time’ type of stuff. Not in front of ex, but on both occasions she’s been out with his friends she’s brought this topic up and made a few comments in regards to it.
On the first occasion one of his friends even said to her, you do realise we’re still friends with candied too, don’t you! She then apparently said, oh it’s not a dig at her or anything. But she still made more comments.

I’m furious, not at her knowing what he pays or even telling people that. That’s his business I guess. But discussing how I spend my money and to my friends. That’s fucking cheeky, isn’t it?

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CandiedPeach · 21/07/2018 18:22

Why would he probably have said worse about me @Ethylred.
I’m not saying he hasn’t btw. I’ve only got his word about what he’s said and of course he could be lying. But why?

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MachineBee · 22/07/2018 22:10

Because they have to justify their behaviour.

1CantPickAName · 23/07/2018 16:52

@Ethylred why would you say that? It is possible for a couple to split and stay on good terms. Not everyone slags off their ex!

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