He has (and I think many Irish people have) the ability to have a nuanced "internal narrative" holding both good and bad in mind.
Yes, absolutely. And the fact of being able to collectively and individually hold a nuanced double (or at least double) narrative in mind was key to the GFA and what led up to it, and has been crucial to maintaining peace since.
Brexit and the border issue strikes a potentially fatal blow to being able to maintain that kind of flexibility -- as many of us were saying, clearly largely unheeded, in the run up to the Brexit referendum. Aargh.
IFailed, I think that class is an important point in how being Irish is perceived in England (I can't speak for Scotland or Wales) -- some of my worst experiences have been at polite middle-class dinner parties and at Oxford. London was better than rural England, despite living in the vicinity of a hugely racially-diverse city.
Irishness in my experience codes as 'not quite white' or 'not quite without race' for a small but significant minority middle-class people in England, and it default-codes to 'working class and uncultivated' -- hence the perpetuation of the feckless, drunken, violent, priest-ridden stereotype straight from late 19thc Punch.
I am working-class and Irish, and have held onto my regional accent in my two decades in England, but I originally came over to study at Oxford, and have a traditionally middle-class job which required multiple postgraduate degrees. And that sometimes confuses the hell out of people, as if they can't hold the clashing codes together.
And, let's not forget, the history of Ireland, is the history of a part of the UK.
Absolutely. Ireland is not some kind of wingman to its bigger neighbour, anxiously checking over its shoulder to see if its former colonial overlord is still paying it attention -- I would see the UK's relationship with the US as far more craven in that sense. The EU is now Ireland's important other. But Ireland is currently interested in UK events because the UK's political decisions are having a potentially disastrous impact not just on that part of Ireland within the UK which voted overwhelming to remain within the EU, but on the island as a whole.
I could even argue that those events, did have a global impact
Yes, and as well as the ones you mentioned, there's the fact that the Irish fight for independence and its documents were hugely influential on the independence movements in other former colonies slightly later in the 20thc.
I still think that what is taught at British schools about Irish history is a complete red herring in a world where huge amount of information is at your fingertips with a quick Google. There's no excuse for ignorance.