Bridesmaid won't dye her hair

[elcarmen]

My bridesmaid has dyed her hair this week a horrible pink colour and I am getting married next saturday. Am i being unreasonable to ask her to dye it back or uninvite her from the wedding?

For context she is incredibly self-centered and always wants the attention to be focused on herself and I think she has done it just to stick out in the photos.

Her hair, her choice. You can't dictate what colour hair your bridesmaids have.

Coming to the DailyMail in 5...4...3...2....1....

Can't understand why people are flaming me on here?

High horse syndrome

What shade of pink? Shocking, pastel!?

Since i'm here does anyone have any advice?

Are you the OP trying to derail the thread because you're coming across as a dick?

I've known her so long i'm finding if hard to believe that she didn't do it on purpose, this sort of thing happens all the time

If you have chosen red dresses and she has pink hair she's going to clash. It wouldn't bother me but I'd feel a bit sorry for her looking so bad. It doesn't reflect on you in anyway and she won't be on show much of the time so I'd ignore it.

There so many nasty 'friends' on here today.

Yes, YABVU to try and dictate what colour she has her hair for your wedding.
Also BVU to give her an ultimatum.

A friend colouring her hair would be the least of my worries in the run up to my wedding.

I hope she tells you no.

I didn't think bridezillas were a real thing

Get her to wear a wig

She's the one who is going to look ridiculous with hair that clashes with her dress.

She won't be the centre of attention - she will be painful to look at and most people will ignore her.

Do not waste another moment's thought on it. Enjoy your day. Photoshop the hair to brown in the photos

Sorry posted that here by mistake
It doesn't work like that, post your own thread.

Since i'm here does anyone have any advice?

See above

Can't understand why people are flaming me on here?

Because you’re a dick.

high horse syndrome

Indeed.

My bet is she’s done it because she knows you’re a shit friend.

Can't understand why people are flaming me on here? High horse syndrome

The concept of AIBU clearly escapes you OP.

Why the fuck did you post on Aibu if you didn’t want an honest opinion???

Get over yourself, ffs, one day, no one else cares.

elcarmen, your tone is so aggressive. Are you sure you liked this woman who you picked as bridesmaid?

You know what your options are, but if it was me and you asked me to die my hair back, I'd rather not attend your wedding. You really sound like a nightmare bride

I'm thinking rebellion as well in response to a bridezilla. Chill OP, it's not important given what you can do with photos these days.

@elcarmen
They're flaming you because it's a hair colour.
Her hair colour. Which you have NO say over.*
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She's not turning up in white. She's not wearing a veil.

It really isn't a big deal in the grand scheme of things.

This is hilarious

The bride is quite obviously BU. Never understood why people getting married expect the world to revolve around them. It might be a big thing for the couple but it isn't really for anyone else.

So what if she attracts attention? How is that a problem?

I can’t believe people would actually photoshop her hair to a “natural” colour! It’s not like she will be mooning the camera!

Maybe she dyed her hair pink hoping you'll uninvite her?

OP I'll ask again, why did you ask her to be your bridesmaid, knowing what you know about her?
Also, do you seriously think it's ok to 'manage' someone else's hair colour?

I'm being called bridezilla when others are telling me to photoshop her in the photos?

It's not just about the photos it's more about the principle

She's my bridesmaid because she's one of my oldest friends. We've had problems over the years and I still never saw this coming.

She can keep the pink hair if she really wants to but i don't think it came from a genuine desire to have pink hair