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186 replies

Aprilshouldhavebeenmyname · 26/06/2018 17:42

Person A and person B out drinking after football match last Sunday.
Person A has no pocket so asks person B to put phone in their car parked next to pub.
Person B doesn't want to be seen opening car when quite drunk. Security +police close by. Could be seen as possibly going to drive....
So person B puts phone in their pocket.
Phone drops from pocket and screen now smashed to bits.
No insurance apparently - iPhone also so diy repair a no-go.
Person A says person B needs to get it fixed. Person B has no issue with this but are they a soft touch?
To you the mn jury......

OP posts:
Poloshot · 26/06/2018 18:04

Person A needs to take responsibility for their own stuff, B was doing them a favour

Ruffian · 26/06/2018 18:05

Person A pays. You can't ask a favour and then blame someone for an accident

Smallhorse · 26/06/2018 18:06

A

bubbles108 · 26/06/2018 18:07

Get the phone fixed by non Apple - sorted

Claricestarling1 · 26/06/2018 18:10

Person A pays, it was an accident that caused the phone to break, not a deliberate act by person B

SoddingUnicorns · 26/06/2018 18:11

Person A handed a drunk person their phone. So I reckon it’s on them.

FrogFairy · 26/06/2018 18:12

Person A should have looked after their own belongings and not fobbed the phone off onto person B. So person A pays for the repair.

Gatehouse77 · 26/06/2018 18:14

Person B - it's their phone and their responsibility.

Why couldn't they put it in the car? Surely, if you opened a back/passenger door you can't be accused of attempting to drive?

All seems a bit OTT to me...

coffeeforone · 26/06/2018 18:15

Is it really illegal to open a car door when drunk?

I think it would be fair to go 50/50 on the cost. What is the relationship between A and B?

Gatehouse77 · 26/06/2018 18:15

D'oh Person A

mrsm43s · 26/06/2018 18:15

Ooh, I think this is a difficult one. Having given it some thought, I think person B should offer to pay for the repair, assuming that person A thought the phone was (safe?) in the car. Because it was person B who decided to put the phone in their pocket, and person B who broke it, that makes them responsible for it getting broken.

That said, assuming person A is an adult, they really should bloody well be taking responsibility for carrying their own possessions, and it was their responsibility to have the phone insured. So I would expect person A to refuse to let person B pay in full, and perhaps suggest they split the repair cost. And then person A needs to learn to be more responsible (and get insurance) in the future.

SoddingUnicorns · 26/06/2018 18:16

@Gatehouse77 not to open the door, but imagine the police driving by while you’re steaming, opening the car door and having the keys in your hand. You’d have a hell of a job convincing them you weren’t about to drive.

Cornishclio · 26/06/2018 18:16

Person A. Their phone, their responsibility. Who would give an expensive phone to a drunk person to look after. A Should have brought a bag or worn something with pockets.

CheeseandGherkins · 26/06/2018 18:17

I'm guessing you're person B.

I think B should pay, but also, should have just put the phone in the car in the first place.

youngestisapsycho · 26/06/2018 18:18

Person A should pay.... and iphone screens can be fixed for about £80 or less....

PopGoesTheWeaz · 26/06/2018 18:19

A

If you aren't secretly A, please show A the thread.

Chocolate1984 · 26/06/2018 18:20

Person A.

Ratarse · 26/06/2018 18:24

Person A is a cf!

SoupDragon · 26/06/2018 18:25

B. A asked them to put it in the car, not carry it about for them in a pocket.

lostinjapan · 26/06/2018 18:26

Person A, definitely. It's a bit lame of them to expect another adult to look after their phone all night. They're an adult, they should take responsibility for their own stuff.

Person B has done nothing wrong. I'd be really pissed off in their situation if Person A expected me to pay a penny. B was sensible enough to not go to the car when drunk, and was nice enough to keep hold of someone else's phone all night. Person A needs to grow up.

Inertia · 26/06/2018 18:26

Split the cost to avoid falling out.

LuluBellaBlue · 26/06/2018 18:29

Person A, their phone, their lack of ownership and care over the item led to it being broken

TheIcon · 26/06/2018 18:29

Having an iPhone is unreasonable!

Glumglowworm · 26/06/2018 18:30

Person A needs to take responsibility for their own things.

Southfields · 26/06/2018 18:30

a