Surely the remainers should pay @adorablemisfit, given that they want them here? Leavers would pay their return fares home, that would make more sense?
I have no idea whether you're a leaver or remainer and whether you agree with the settled status plans or not. But I'd like to point out that the UK is 'home'. My husband came here 14 years ago, married me, had children, studied, works, has built his whole life here. This is his home. The country he happened to be born in is not 'home' and has not been for some time. His home is here.
When he came, and throughout our life together, and as we have grown our family and made our plans, his right to be here was simple and straightforward and required no applications or payments or proofs, etc. He did not vote for that to change. I did not vote for that to change. Our children did not. I don't see why we should be thankful that the government are allowing people who came here legally to pay to remain legally (with reduced rights) when it wasn't their choice for anything to change.
I get that a lot of people scorn the emotional reaction to Brexit experienced and displayed by people like me, but tbh, if you had heard your husband described in the ways some leavers have spoken about EU nationals, if your husband had come home time and time again in the days since the referendum telling you of "now Poles fuck off home" 'jokes' at work, if your children had asked "if Daddy is Polish does that mean I'm not really British?", if you had to base your confidence in your family's future and security on the humanity, fairness and competence of the government insitutions responsible for Windrush and were being told you should be grateful your husband wasn't being deported... you too may feel a bit bloody upset.