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In Connecticut, two teenage boys who identify as girls have come 1st and 2nd in the girls' 100m sprint

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OrchidInTheSun · 07/06/2018 17:03

twitter.com/GameTimeCT/status/1003739370736816129

Reposted from Feminism Chat as more people need to see this.

Neither Miller nor Yearwood have got times that would be remotely remarkable for boys (200th and 443rd respectively) but they are smashing the girls' records out of the park as now they identify as girls, they're allowed to race them instead.

Watch the face of the girl who comes third. That's pretty much her best ever 100m race. But she didn't win.

Self identification means this kind of thing will keep on happening. If you value women's sport and think that women and girls deserve to compete on a level playing field, please sign the petition: petition.parliament.uk/petitions/214118

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BlackeyedSusan · 09/06/2018 18:25

It is not just two girls they have displaced.

a whole column of girls has been bumped down the list one place in their respective schools. a girl has missed out on winning their school competition, she displaced the second girl who displaced the thrid into a non medal position. then another girl did not get on the team and is in the juior team. there more girls are dispalced. one who should be on the junior team does not get picked at all.

repeat in the other boys school.

perhaps there are district championships where more girls miss out on going to state.

then at state championships, everyone gets bumped down two places.

there are many more girls effected by this than boys, but it is the boys who get priority. How is that fair?

SuperDandy · 09/06/2018 18:27

For adult vocal tone and pitch, birth sex very much does make a difference. There are some interesting case studies around on Howe transition in either direction affects the singing voice. So for pre-puberty voices, there would be little difference if any between boy, girl, trans boy or trans girl voices, but for adults that's not the case at all.

A trans woman singing in an all female choir at competition or a trans man in an all male choir could be considered as a fairness issue in a similar vein to sports.

I an ideal world, that discussion could take place without deliberately misgendering named individuals, as that's one of the lines drawn in the sand by MNHQ. It's a shame to see so much of it happening on this thread, especially since the people being discussed are children.

TransplantsArePlants · 09/06/2018 18:31

A really good thread that breaks some of this stuff down

CoughLaughFart · 09/06/2018 18:36

Why does something have to "happen" to women or girls-why isn't us saying "no" enough?? We know what some penis owners are capable of. Don't pretend you don't know this.

This is absolutely vile. Not one piece of genuine evidence.

Opheliah · 09/06/2018 18:37

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JacquesHammer · 09/06/2018 18:38

Not one piece of genuine evidence

Apart from this thread is full of examples.

CoughLaughFart · 09/06/2018 18:40

Trolldar is all I'm saying.

Check the MN rules and say it again.

SardineReturns · 09/06/2018 18:41

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SardineReturns · 09/06/2018 18:42

I mean they can store sperm but this is expensive and from what I have heard many young MTF are not really fully aware of that side of things.

Many 15yo don't want kids many of them change their mind. They won't sterilise 30yo women FFS when they already have kids on the basis they might "change their minds" but for much younger trans poeple it's completely different?

BastardMs · 09/06/2018 18:52

Why does something have to "happen" to women or girls-why isn't us saying "no" enough??

THIS. Why is saying no not enough? Why are we expected to justify ourselves and play nice. Why?

CoughLaughFart · 09/06/2018 18:56

What have you been asked to justify your a ‘penis owner’?

nauticant · 09/06/2018 18:57

You asked Show me one proven incidence of this happening. What's the "this" in your question CoughLaughFart?

TransplantsArePlants · 09/06/2018 18:57

Warning - the above video on YouTube is distressing

Pratchet · 09/06/2018 18:58

This is absolutely vile. Not one piece of genuine evidence

Apart from all the genuine evidence

CoughLaughFart · 09/06/2018 19:05

Then feel free to share it.

Pratchet · 09/06/2018 19:08

here

CoughLaughFart · 09/06/2018 19:10

So in other words, you don’t like anyone suggesting they might be trans in case a girl gets upset?

sheldonesque · 09/06/2018 19:11

I self ID as God.

I call shenanigans.

I also ban this CIS and fleeting-for-an-ulterior-motive-self-ID mince.

Back in the real world, I am inwardly weeping.

Bowlofbabelfish · 09/06/2018 19:14

In the real world, no one has ever chopped their cock off in the hope they could enter a women’s toilet.

Two points here: one - they don’t need to.

And two - let’s leave aside trans women for a moment. Let’s just talk about regular old men. When self ID comes in, any man can walk into the ladies loos. He can’t be challenged. He can’t be thrown out.

Now. Again, just talking about regular men, let’s leave transwomen aside - do you think men who want to assault women will use this to do so?

Of course they will. They already are. In the stores in the USA where changing rooms have been made unisex, sexual crime has tripled. Every aid agency on the planet campaigns for single sex toilets for women because it helps to reduce rape and assault.

Self ID is a nightmare. Don’t you understand that? Even if every transwoman on the planet is a walking Saint with no intent to harm, men in general will be able to access these spaces and assault women.

CoughLaughFart · 09/06/2018 19:16

When self ID comes in, any man can walk into the ladies loos. He can’t be challenged. He can’t be thrown out.

How often has this actually happened?

BastardMs · 09/06/2018 19:19

We're asked to justify it all the time. Why we don't want men in our toilets. Why we don't want men in our changing rooms. Why we don't want men in women's sports, or positions for women, or shortlists for women. By people like you who want the men to like you, and think you're woke and inclusive when actually you're just happily chucking women and girls under the bus.

CoughLaughFart · 09/06/2018 19:22

Again, you apparently cannot provide one single incidence of this actually happening.

As for toilets, how often do women barge into the men’s in clubs/pubs because ‘the queue’s too long’?

CoughLaughFart · 09/06/2018 19:23

‘Think you’re woke’ doesn’t even make sense.

Bowlofbabelfish · 09/06/2018 19:29

How often has this actually happened?

You are kidding right?

Across the world, access to toilets that are single sex is seen as vital. Without that women are vulnerable to rape. Here are figures from ONE township in South Africa. One. 635 rapes in a year journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0122244

But no, it never happens.

Do you mean in the uk? Ok here’s one transwoman.

Ok. Mark Lazarus. ‘ Lazarus, 39, waited for more than an hour outside the toilet until someone entered wearing a skirt and then attacked the victim as she washed her hands.’

But no, it never happens.

In terms of men just following women in ... you know this happens all the time, right? Three seconds of google will show you that. Women are vulnerable as hell when they’re in the loos

www.eastbourneherald.co.uk/news/woman-sexually-assaulted-in-arndale-public-toilets-1-7999745

But no, it never happens 🤦🏻‍♀️

Bowlofbabelfish · 09/06/2018 19:30

As for toilets, how often do women barge into the men’s in clubs/pubs because ‘the queue’s too long’?

I have no idea. I would imagine the number of rapes committed by such women is zero though.

Now, want to address the figures above, or keep denying that it happens?

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