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another CF holiday situation

285 replies

Alwayslumpyporridge · 02/06/2018 09:29

Booked a swim up room, there are four ground floor apartments in a row, all of us have booked swim up rooms and paid a supplement. Upstairs neighbours currently in our pool, shouting down from balcony, throwing inflatables from balcony. They have climbed over the wall at the end of the pool to get in.

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misiabella · 02/06/2018 10:57

Sorry, but your DH is strange. I would be at the reception desk the minute they entered my pool. It is not your job to confront them - hotel management will do it. Leaving them to enjoy it will make them think that it is ok. Before you know they will say that they did it yesterday, so what is the problem now.

ScarlettSahara · 02/06/2018 10:59

If you don’t speak to them they will be there every day!

Lou222 · 02/06/2018 11:00

You have gone out and left them in your pool??
Are you a compete pushover in all areas of your life?
Grow up and chuck them out. I’d probably ditch your dh while you’re at it for being such a wet lettuce.

Fintress · 02/06/2018 11:01

We left our inflatable by pool while we went out came back it was on someone's balcony

One time on holiday had a woman walk up and lift our pool hammock from right next to our lounger. She was seriously pissed off and swore at me because I took it off her. Some people are downright brazen.

OP, no way would I go to brunch and leave them in your pool. If they want a swim up room tell them to go pay for an upgrade.

pinkyredrose · 02/06/2018 11:02

You and your DH are both total drips.

CaptainBrickbeard · 02/06/2018 11:02

They’ll use it the whole time if you say nothing, especially if they think it’s a public pool or belongs to their apartment too. I get that you might feel bad embarrassing them but you can explain politely and get reception to deal with any problems. Unless you want to share the pool for the rest of your holiday?!

CaptainBrickbeard · 02/06/2018 11:05

Fintress I’m so fascinated by what happens in these people’s heads! What internal justification can she have had for swearing at you for not allowing her to steal your property??

Charley50 · 02/06/2018 11:06

Omg just politely say this is a private get out please.

Charley50 · 02/06/2018 11:07

@Fintress - what's a pool hammock?

Summerthunder · 02/06/2018 11:08

Yes what’s a pool hammock?

TidyDancer · 02/06/2018 11:08

OP how can your DH be so passive about this?! That would infuriate me on top of the CFs!

bellsbuss · 02/06/2018 11:09

Say to them that someone has just done a big shit in there and you're waiting for it to be cleaned 😂😂

pinkyredrose · 02/06/2018 11:14

How could they possibly think it's public or belongs to thier apartment if they had to climb over a wall to get to it? Hmm

CowesTwo · 02/06/2018 11:18

The minute i’d have seen the inflatable being chucked down from their balcony i’d have dashed out and thrown it out of the pool.

LoniceraJaponica · 02/06/2018 11:18

Oh FGS! Just put your big girl pants on and complain to reception. You have paid extra for this facility. The other people haven't.

You don't have to confront these piss takers yourself. Don't be so passive.

tealandteal · 02/06/2018 11:36

If they somehow did some damage surely you might be liable as it is supposed to be for your use only? Definitely tell them to get out. What if they fancy a 3am swim?!

Boulty · 02/06/2018 11:36

Strange thing to post on MN just deal with it by contacting hotel reception or just tell them it is a private pool and please leave.

Cblue · 02/06/2018 11:38

Is it a swim up room (ie a main pool with a kind of stream that goes to an area outside your door) or is it a separate pool?

If it’s a swim up joined to the main pool then you may have a problem. You have paid for the ability to swim from your door to the main pool rather than your own private pool so the management may just confirm that it’s not your pool and the neighbors are entitled to be there.

I know this won’t be a popular post but thought I would warn you that the management may say tough.
Having said that, they will probably make a goodwill jesture including recompensing you for the additional price you paid for the room.

HarryLovesDraco · 02/06/2018 11:38

Why is your husband being such a baby?
Does he usually pay for extra luxuries for random other people's holidays?

CaptainBrickbeard · 02/06/2018 11:39

I don’t know pinky, I guess I was imagining a low wall that you step over and some really stupid people?? I just find it hard to imagine being so brazen as to do this deliberately but clearly there are people with rhino hides and a massive sense of over-entitlement!

CaptainBrickbeard · 02/06/2018 11:40

cblue that makes sense, if it’s a channel going past lots of rooms to join the main pool I guess you couldn’t keep that exclusively private.

itchyknees · 02/06/2018 11:41

What on Earth is wrong with your husband? Why doesn’t he think you should say anything??

You know they are weeing in there, don’t you?

SadieHH · 02/06/2018 11:43

So you turn a blind eye and go off for your lunch, then you have zero legs to stand on if they're still there when you get back because you gave them the nod by letting them stay and not saying anything. Get them out ffs!

Lacucuracha · 02/06/2018 11:43

It's just a room with a pool directly outside. Couple of steps from the patio doors usually. Small "plunge pool" type rather than a large main pool.

I don't think a swim up room is a small plunge pool. I think it's where you can get into the pool directly from the patio of your room, like in the attached pic.

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Cblue · 02/06/2018 11:48

Lacuracha - yep. That’s what a swim up room normally is, and nope it’s not normally a private pool.
Still worth complaining to the management though especially if they are throwing things down from the balcony and making a noise.