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HE TOOK THIS JOB WITHOUT EVEN DISCUSSING IT WITH ME

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hungryhippo90 · 31/05/2018 17:56

To be fair, our marriage is in trouble, to be fair, I didn’t quite see us staying together much longer, but I’ve been trying, and so has he.

We spent much of this week on training together- we have a small business which we are both directors of.

We finished our training, got home, he went to the living room, he’s on the phone. He gets off, I ask, new contract? What’s that?

He’d arranged to start a contract in Germany on Monday.

As Just above and I have to write this again because I’m fucking dumbfounded. He leaves on Monday.
He isn’t 100% on the details as he’s waiting for his contract to come through, but he is going on Monday. No discussion.

Please someone tell me I’m not being U to believe that this is the end of our marriage?

It’s not a discussion that’s anything to do with me as his wife, or business partner, and seemingly no concern to him that we have a child who’s life he’s just disappearing from?! He seems to just think he’s going for a few months work.

I am so hurt.

OP posts:
NK493efc93X1277dd3d6d4 · 03/06/2018 01:13

See a solicitor & simply treat him as if he going off to work for the day with no additional attention whatsoever.
Basically ignore him & what he's doing and quietly sort things out for you & your son.

BeachyUmbrella · 03/06/2018 18:44

How has your weekend been?
If he really is off tomorrow, I presume the first step is a solicitors, both for the business and personal assets.
Thanks

JeanLouiseAKAScout · 04/06/2018 07:37

Oh god I've just realised what your other thread is. Run like fuck. To a solicitor. He's fucking off and doing you a favour so seize the opportunity

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