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To tell DH he is pronouncing DD’s name wrong.

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DuchessOfNorfolk · 27/05/2018 08:59

DD is mainly known as a shortening of her name. Occasionally we call her the full versio. However I have noticed DH pronounces it in a different way to how I have ever heard it pronounced. I assumed there was just one pronunciation of it. I’m wondering if it would be reasonable to point it out? Or do I just live with it.

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MikeUniformMike · 30/05/2018 10:46

I'd probably just say milky coffee.
The 'tt' suggest a short a.

MikeUniformMike · 30/05/2018 10:48

I'll stick to black coffee and not worry about it I think.

Uyulala · 30/05/2018 10:48

Interesting, I've never heard anyone say it with a short 'a'.

Uyulala · 30/05/2018 10:48

Envy ew, can't do black coffee. Sugarless, yes. Milkless? No!

MiddleClassProblem · 30/05/2018 11:08

DH sometimes says it with a short “a” and I take the piss 😂

He also swallows the end of the word when he says calendar so it’s like caalnder but really gulped down at the end. Neither are accent things, just numpty things.

RedDwarves · 30/05/2018 11:16

Definitely lah-tay in Australia.

derxa · 30/05/2018 11:23

www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2017/nov/16/too-late-to-the-par-tay-to-correct-the-pronunciation-of-latte
Never mind all those ridiculous versions of caffè latte (Latte lessons, G2, 14 November). The lesson I wish most coffee drinkers and baristas would learn is how to pronounce “latte”. It rhymes with paté, not par-tay, and is Italian for “milk”.
Alan Greenslade-Hibbert
Mollington, Oxfordshire

MiddleClassProblem · 30/05/2018 11:47

Actually it’s regional in Italian too (because we are not the only ones with accents)

DH pronounces it latay which is wrong. It would la teh or laa teh.

SleepingStandingUp · 30/05/2018 11:56

But Middle what are epoisses? You're my key to a middle class life.!!

MiddleClassProblem · 30/05/2018 12:00

Cheese

MikeUniformMike · 30/05/2018 12:00

Ooh thanks. It's not just me then.

MiddleClassProblem · 30/05/2018 12:01

Epoisses

To tell DH he is pronouncing DD’s name wrong.
MiddleClassProblem · 30/05/2018 12:03

I like the way we’ve gone from accents to a vegan nightmare 😂

liz70 · 30/05/2018 12:08

"However as many PPs have pointed out, they don't want to say pour. They are happy just saying paw for three differently pronounced words"

Sorry, I should written that as "teeyaw", really. I'm a poor/pour/paw/pore all sound the same person too. Common as muck, me. Grin

Anyway, it's not a case of wanting or not wanting to pronounce words a certain way. It's just the way I naturally speak; any other way would feel affected and false to me. I'm not paid to speak to the public (or anyone), and people I do talk to seem to understand me okay, so I guess all's good. Smile

Minionoftheantichrist · 30/05/2018 12:26

middleclassproblem LOL at vegan nightmare.

SleepingStandingUp · 30/05/2018 13:15

I aye ating tha' skin Middle,it looks well mingin', we doe ate posh muck like that 'ere y' know

MiddleClassProblem · 30/05/2018 13:52

I’m sorry, one simple can’t engage when one is about to consume venison with a cocoa and quinoa crust, saffron infused quail eggs with blanched asparagus and romanesco.

fake food is making me hungry and the dog ate my actual lunch when I went to the loo so I’m grumpy

SleepingStandingUp · 30/05/2018 13:56

I can at least pronounce quinoa

SleepingStandingUp · 30/05/2018 13:57

Sushi is bad for dogs. Is it one of those dogs you carry in a bag and only feed meat the gatekeeper ha shot?

MiddleClassProblem · 30/05/2018 14:04

It is a Labrador...

(Sushi not ideal for dogs but not “bad”)

MiddleClassProblem · 30/05/2018 14:05

But it was a quiche which probably was bad for him as it has onion in it.

SleepingStandingUp · 30/05/2018 14:07

Oh I Labrador's. Is he called Bounca?

MiddleClassProblem · 30/05/2018 14:09

Yes but we pronounce it Bou-En-Sior

And he’s married

MiddleClassProblem · 30/05/2018 14:10

I think we’ve derailed the thread...

SleepingStandingUp · 30/05/2018 14:20

Surely Bou-En-Swa as you can't say R!

Oops, we'll be sent tip the head teachers office!!

I don't want to marry him you weirdo, I'm not into bestiality. I like fit blonde Australian men not fit blonde dogs!