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Should I feel guilty about this or not ?!

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2furbabies · 22/05/2018 01:36

I'll try to keep this short... ish

Basically Dp and I are splitting we cannot get on and after 2 years of trying for our child it's just not working.
He expects me to do everything around the house and all that bla bla but the main issue was he was always tired or not horny and honestly we only have sex about once a month!! Sorry for the prudes out there but I love sex I'd do it everyday if I could! He wouldn't go near me when I was pregnant and then the traumatic labour meant we went 1.3 years without any sex 😩 and then when we could he's too tired or doesn't want too! Not toting my own horn but I'm an attractive female in her late twenties I know I can get my desires fulfilled lol
Soooo we've been split up a month now and he's in the process of moving out and there's a really cute guy I've known for years who I know for a fact will take me on a date and the rest hopefully ha! But I feel guilty!! There's no chance of getting back with my ex I love him to pieces but it's never going to work no matter how much we both try so why do I feel guilty ?! Am I missing something here because my friends tell me to go for it. It's nothing serious just fun and I'm very much ok with that!
Help?!

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SparklyMagpie · 23/05/2018 18:44

On that front, I only go to my friends when my son is at his dad's, so I'm assuming That wouldn't be an issue for OP keeping it low key?

2furbabies · 23/05/2018 18:58

@Nikephorus please bugger off you strange person! I would of course ask someone to baby sit them while I went out in a date! Not that it's any of your business at all and not sure why that makes me a bad parent now as well! How hilarious! I do all the fucking childcare day in day out with no help and I want one evening to myself and now I've got to explain where my kids will be when I have sex omg 😂😂

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2furbabies · 23/05/2018 19:00

@Nikephorus one thing I'm sooo sure of is I'm an amazing mother! I give them everything I have and they are always my first priority and the reason I choose to stay for so long and now the reason I'm leaving so just cut the think of the children crap it's dated as hell

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