Should I feel guilty about this or not ?!

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I'll try to keep this short... ish

Basically Dp and I are splitting we cannot get on and after 2 years of trying for our child it's just not working.
He expects me to do everything around the house and all that bla bla but the main issue was he was always tired or not horny and honestly we only have sex about once a month!! Sorry for the prudes out there but I love sex I'd do it everyday if I could! He wouldn't go near me when I was pregnant and then the traumatic labour meant we went 1.3 years without any sex 😩 and then when we could he's too tired or doesn't want too! Not toting my own horn but I'm an attractive female in her late twenties I know I can get my desires fulfilled lol
Soooo we've been split up a month now and he's in the process of moving out and there's a really cute guy I've known for years who I know for a fact will take me on a date and the rest hopefully ha! But I feel guilty!! There's no chance of getting back with my ex I love him to pieces but it's never going to work no matter how much we both try so why do I feel guilty ?! Am I missing something here because my friends tell me to go for it. It's nothing serious just fun and I'm very much ok with that!
Help?!

Loooool I'm loving the patronising cookies 😂😂😂 you guys are cheering me up it's quite amusing I must say. Why is it that I get called bullshit but I'm being very honest and truthful and yet the bloody fake cheating stories get hundreds of replies and everyone loves being drip fed absolute bullshit 😂 there's been the one about the scarf recently sorry but that cannot be true! Who find condoms and doesn't know what they are for ? And why even ask? Condoms are made for one thing!! Dicks!! Or carrying water in the army but mostly dicks lol

@Juells thank you so much !! I wasn't trying to boast! I've only just got my self confidence back and it took a hard hit believe me! It is out of order that he doesn't want to have sex with me lol wether or not I'm in shape or not! But the point is I've struggled for months to get even fitter than befor and still nothing 😩

@JacquesHammer thank you 😁 I'm going to suggest cpunciling as a step because he's now saying he can change etc but he shouts about me about the house being messy and there's not even a crumb! I do fear his OCD impacts are sex life because he's probs always noticing things about me that put him off, but then he won't get help for it 🤷‍♀️

Don't shag the new guy is my advice. End this relationship or keep it before factoring I'm shagging the new guy.

@JacquesHammer the split will work in my favour! I won't have him expecting so much (I like a very spotless home anyways btw) I have one of those houses you wouldn't know we have kids till you go into their rooms 😅 the mess stays there's.
I will have the weekends back again and have some time to myself as I do ALL the child care/housework etc so actually the split is very much in my favour which I think he's realising! But too little too late ? Can anyone really change when they have such severe OCD ?!!

On your post from October last year you said you and your partner had sex... did that time not count?

I've asked mums net to delete this thread as I really don't want other women seeing it and thinking they have to be ashamed of being attractive! Everyone on this planet is attractive if they want to be! It normally comes down to the attitude of the person not the looks! My body may not be the best but my soul is pure and kind and that will always lead people towards me not away! Don't ever be ashamed of being attractive inside and out! The world would be a better place with more love and smiles not dragging other women down for "feeling herself"

@Shatnerswig you can add me to your list, you nasty bastard

Oh piss off OP

I'm an attractive, single mum, no need to bang on about it

@Idontlikelambchop ??? In the am I in labour post ? I made him stick his penis inside me he said it felt horrible and took it out ? Do I really need to explain the details to you? What the hell has that got to do with anything ? Get a life

@SparklyMagpie haha she says banging on about it ? So piss off yourself ? 😂😂

Fuck off OP. If that's really what you took from this post, you need your head read. Frankly you don't come across as particularly nice in your posts to others, your flippant references to your DP and in wanting to jump into bed with someone when DP is not even out the door. Nothing wrong with being attractive. I believe I'm attractive but then I'm also not acting like a dick on a public forum. Nice one.

I'll gladly piss of along with my self respect knowing I'm not stuck with an abusive bastard 👍

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Was too busy admiring my looks than focusing on my spelling

@Jamboree05 yes that's what I'm doing isn't it! Acting like a dick on social media 😂😂😂 so it's ok for my
Ex to come home with another girls phone number when we're together ? Not kiss cuddle or help me with the kids which 2 are biological his not mine!!! But I'm not allowed to state I'm attractive and want to have sex with someone else ? He's moving out next week thank god

Bye then!

Sparkly Shall we piss off together down the pub? Along with everyone else who got the measure of the OP long before she started being offensive?

@ShatnersWig the measure of me ?!!! I didn't start being offensive you did. You've been on mums net for 8 years you clearly have nothing better to do with yourself so please
Kindle fuck off down the pub love drink yourself into thinking your on a moral high horse won't you 😁

@ShatnersWig first round's on me!

It's a date @Shatnerswig !

Women should never be allowed to think they're attractive.

I wonder if this is the future of MN . . .'huns', 'babes', 'hot sexy young things' confusing narcissism with empowerment.

Of course getting MN to delete the thread hides the "facts" that dispute previous "fact". Clever move. But to suggest you're doing it because you "really don't want other women seeing it and thinking they have to be ashamed of being attractive"? Yeah, right love.

Ahaha "you clearly have nothing better to do with yourself" says the attractive woman wanting opinions on an easy shag and making herself look a right tit

Jesus Christ OP you aren't coming across very well