@anyalovesrose
I’m like jamoncrumpets - very much your target audience, or I was very much your target audience. I unfollowed you and FOD for exactly the same reason I fast forward adverts on TV. I think it was the Volvo ad that eventually did it, although I did come back for a bit - long enough for the cringefest that was the washing machine saga. (Although not long enough to find out whether you got a free one, because sadly, that seemed to be where it was going.) I don’t mean to bash you, but honestly, whether you realise it or not - that’s exactly how it came across.
Every now and then one of you pops up on my insta, and I’ll read it and think ‘oh this is funny/relevant to me/whatever - why did I unfollow these guys?’ So I revisit your accounts and remind myself.
I am solidly no longer your target audience - and I struggle to know who is. What I love about social media is that is has so much power to do good. When I first followed you, you made me feel normal. Like, here’s this woman, who’s just like me, winging life, parenthood, working hard (in the same profession) - I felt so happy about your book, and all the potential good you and other ‘normal’ women/mums/dads/families/men were doing on social media.
But you’re not ‘normal’ anymore. Certainly not my normal. It’s very easy to have comical car journeys in a free car. It must be great to go to Florida without worrying about whether we’ve exceeded our (small) daily budget. If my washing machine breaks, I have no hope of a free one taking its place. The real kicker though, was before the ‘paid partnership’ thing had subtly crept in, and you all went to Portugal or somewhere(?!) - a little villa anyway. And it was all so, look at us, and we amaaaazzzzziiiiinnnnmgggg, in this oh-so-cute little villa, all cultural and worthy, dripping in the right clothes and doing/saying the right thing.
Suddenly I (and many others) felt very inadequate. Your comment about ‘working hard’ makes me feel very inadequate - I work hard too. Working hard does not guarantee the spills you guys have had, and I honestly don’t think you see that. I think I’m right in thinking that you do 1 shift a week now - and if that’s the case, you truly have lost touch. 1 shift a week is something many of your original followers can only dream of - but hey, if we carry on working hard maybe we’ll get free cars, holidays and appliances too - or not.
You (and other insta influencers) are like the modern day versions of 90s glossy magazines. Full of unrealistic portrayals, photoshopped within an inch of its life, making us feel unworthy for not working hard enough. Desperately crying out for someone to wipe the filter off so we can all go back to feeling normal again.