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MintyT · 30/04/2018 20:17

I don't know about you, but since the instamums posts I have really noticed the #AD on posts, and to be honest I had no idea I was so gullible. I loved the threads regards instamums and really think MN made a small change, well done us

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CadyHeron · 08/05/2018 21:58

If a group of kids in school targeted one child like this, or a group of women in a workplace did this to a colleague it would most certainly be classed as bullying.
That's a good point, actually - if it was someone else not in the public eye continually being singled out, would that be OK?
Why is it any different if you're an IGer?

SurfingUSA · 08/05/2018 21:58

Ah sorry Gazelle misunderstood. Steph don't buy her flowers used #dickhead too. The hashtags go in waves between them (#injoke #clique)

SurfingUSA · 08/05/2018 22:00

Cady they are not at school or in an office. This is a chat group discussing public figures who cherrypick from their own lives to post and make a living.

Gobbolinothewitchscat · 08/05/2018 22:03

MOD is not a child and is running a business where she has chosen to turn her children and her own private life into a commodity to be sold

That is completely unanalgous with a child at school

It's like Teresa May saying that every mumsnetter who disagrees with her policies is bullying her and demanding their home addresses. Or Donald Trump saying he is a father and the threads on here don't make his life as a parent easier so delete please.

MarvelleGazelle · 08/05/2018 22:06

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HolyMountain · 08/05/2018 22:07

IGers with huge followings are putting themselves out there as public figures.

They will get the plaudits and the criticism.

It’s not bullying.

MediocrePenguin · 08/05/2018 22:09

Cady this issue is a lot bigger than mums bitching about instamums on mumsnet.

It's not exactly ok no but you will never wipe out negative comments on the internet, you just have to accept it you put your entire life online for the world to see then there are going to be people who won't like you. And that only increases along with your follower numbers.

The solution if you can't hack it, is really only to delete it all.

SurfingUSA · 08/05/2018 22:10

Gazelle 😁

SurfingUSA · 08/05/2018 22:13

I don't think there was any bullying on the previous threads. I also don't buy MOD's post I'm afraid. She stokes the fire frequently.

I was on the previous threads with a different username (can't log into it for some reason).

SurfingUSA · 08/05/2018 22:15

I've started to enjoy the really boring instas- Martha and the farmer's wife. Like watching paint dry 😂

MarvelleGazelle · 08/05/2018 22:20

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CadyHeron · 08/05/2018 22:21

Course they'll get criticism. Personal is different though.
I have to ask though as I was on the thread earlier and saw - what allergy said to a poster was near enough word for word (just one post this time) and just a fraction of what I got on the last thread.
"Cady! You still here? Go have a creme egg or something!"
"You've been on this thread all weekend, haven't you got anything better to do?" (same as what allergy said basically)
Why is it OK for some to dish it but not others? It's not OK whoever is doing it.

HolyMountain · 08/05/2018 22:22

There hasn’t been any bullying on here regarding IG threads and those eye catching names.

Those claiming otherwise are ignorant of what bullying really means and are using the word to elicit sympathy when they’re getting a difficult conversation put in front of them asking for a response.

SurfingUSA · 08/05/2018 22:22

Yes Gazelle! And she's kept quiet on that. Probs selling it privately because people are DMing her saying they've sniffed the crotch because they lurrrvvve her so much. Her freaky super fans scare me a little.

CadyHeron · 08/05/2018 22:24

surfing Grin OMG the type that are like paint drying is the worst, with you on that lol!

SurfingUSA · 08/05/2018 22:24

Oh blimey man up. Sofialemon called me a bitch on a previous thread. Couldn't give less of a shit.

MarvelleGazelle · 08/05/2018 22:25

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SurfingUSA · 08/05/2018 22:25

But Cady I find them quite relaxing!

CadyHeron · 08/05/2018 22:25

Oops my bad, teach me to read properly. You like paint drying type accounts. They are quite fun Grin

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CadyHeron · 08/05/2018 22:26

surfing yeah, I couldn't really give a shit either, which is why I refused to let myself be hounded off.
Was just wondering how it was any different though.

SurfingUSA · 08/05/2018 22:29

To be fair it did get a little heated on previous instathreads between a few of us. I guess it's nice that some people feel compelled to defend the instas. Although saying 'I don't care about ads' is just odd.

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NovichoksAway · 08/05/2018 22:30

Re read what allergy said. It was revolting.