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To wonder where the hell he is?

452 replies

TheHeightSupremacist · 14/04/2018 20:59

Been seeing someone for a couple of months, at least twice a week but it’s been nearly every day over the past couple of weeks. He has been really into me, cooked for me, taken me away numerous times and said the l word very early on.

We had plans to go to his friends birthday tonight, spoke to him earlier and everything was fine. Text later to let him know what time I would be over, not read and no reply, we are now 2 and a half hours after we were supposed to meet and I haven’t heard from him since 3.30pm. No messages read, no answer to my calls. Getting a bit concerned, where could he be?!

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Mouseville65 · 15/04/2018 09:21

Did you try calling the police station to check if he had being arrested?

MudCity · 15/04/2018 09:22

I agree with Bingo too (upthread).

TalkingOrmer · 15/04/2018 09:27

OP I hope you're ok. I'm hoping that your absence from the thread is because you eventually met up and went to the party together.

flubdub · 15/04/2018 09:33

Any news?

BigApple11 · 15/04/2018 09:34

Did you find him?

LetsTalk33 · 15/04/2018 09:37

Does he own a parrot?

😂😂😂

LetsTalk33 · 15/04/2018 09:37

Does he own a parrot?

😂😂😂

Lundi · 15/04/2018 09:39

Hope he's turned up this morning OP!

JiminyBillyBob · 15/04/2018 09:43

Yeah what Bingo said.

loveisevol · 15/04/2018 09:47

Any news?

Foxysoxy10 · 15/04/2018 09:48

OP has been ghosted and now she has ghosted MN! Shock

MultiGrey · 15/04/2018 10:01

My friend once dropped off the radar for a couple of hours. He tripped, fell down the stairs and knocked himself out, broke a rib and couldn’t move.

A friend of a friend went up in the loft, the ladder slipped when they went to come down, he clambered back up but the ladder fell so he was stuck there until someone came home to put the ladder back up.

Just putting up alternative scenarios to the depressing “he’s cheating / being a twat” suggestions.

Hope all is well OP

willynillypie · 15/04/2018 10:08

I would normally agree with Bingo but just wanted to share that my mother had a boyfriend who completely doted on her. He had a big work project coming to a close and after it did he wanted to take her away on holiday and spend more time together. His project finished and the next day he disappeared. Cue my mother messaging him that he's a cunt and all sorts. Gets a call 3 days later from his daughter that all he ever did was talk about my mother, but he had died of a heart attack. Mother had to go to his funeral (and was mortified by her messages!) - it's unlikely but these things do happen.

hmmwhatatodo · 15/04/2018 10:19

Known each other for a couple of months and already he has taken you away loads of times. Sounds very intense.

I suppose there could be any number of reasons as to why he is missing but I imagine you have to give him the benefit of the doubt. Perhaps the op has gone to his house again this morning to have a look and then on to his mums. If he was messing her around would he really have let her know where he lives so soon and introduced her to family and friends?

MudCity · 15/04/2018 10:19

willynillypie So sad for your mum and for him and his family.

dontbesillyhenry · 15/04/2018 10:22

Hope all is ok

strongerthan · 15/04/2018 10:24

@BinG0wings123 I had the same 2 weeks ago. Literally told me he loved me, about to complete on house and then says the next morning "I'm not happy"

JUST FUCK OFF!!! Arghhhh I'm so angry.

How is your life now?

itneverrainsitpours · 15/04/2018 10:25

Should we now be worried about OP also?!

HomerDancing · 15/04/2018 10:29

I also am inclined to agree with bingo

Sorry

hunterbear · 15/04/2018 10:31

Any update?

BlondeB83 · 15/04/2018 10:31

I hope he has been found safe and well OP x

IbizaLovesSundays · 15/04/2018 10:34

I think OP has found him in his ghost world and both have now ghosted us!
Hope he's OK though OP

JustLayingOnTheSofa · 15/04/2018 10:40

You can get to know someone quite a lot in only 2 months. I know that sounds odd but if you spend a good deal of time with someone, it's surprising how much you can get to know them.

I met someone 6 months ago, 1 month into it, I felt like I'd known him absolute years.

I'd be phoning his mum, if I'd met her.

However I'm the kind of cunt who wouldn't give a shit and be back on social media within hours Blush

TerfsUp · 15/04/2018 10:42

Alien abduction. It's the only answer.

skippykips · 15/04/2018 10:44

Any sign OP?

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