To feel like a bloody fool

[mummabeargrr]

My DS called me a couple of weeks ago to invite me to hers for a BBQ for today, my DF would be in the country and staying with her so we could all meet up. I got DD to organise her work so she had the time off so we could all be there. I get a phone call yesterday from DF to tell me how poorly DS was (she has had a cold) and how busy he was and would it be ok to cancel and maybe he would pop up next weekend to see the DGC but we'll speak later. I said of course obviously.

Then 3 hours ago discover via FB that DS,BIL And DF have all gone to the races!

Can you tell that I’ve done it a few times!

Oh mumma that's horrible.
Your extended family are frickin' nasty fuckers.
You are so much better off without them.
Enjoy your own family and sod them all.

You can unfollow them so you don’t see them but you don’t have the drama of defriending.

This is all so shit I’m so sorry. Not even close to the same, but my dad arranged a family party and I didn’t even know about it till cousins asked me where I was. Dad said he knew I couldn’t come (which was true) so he didn’t mention it.

That hurt enough without the rest of it.

mummabeargrr
You are well rid- what truly awful behaviour by your father.