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pt.2 To find floral tributes being left for Harry Vincent offensive

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lostjanni · 11/04/2018 20:35

We reached the post limit so if anyone wants to carry on the discussion...

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stitchglitched · 12/04/2018 22:28

I don't she's reported shit unless she also wants them going over her incoherent ramblings too. It's just a power trip now and a really unpleasant one at that.

stillvicarinatutu · 12/04/2018 22:29

And I don't actually give a flying if I get sacked. After 10 years of this I'm happy to go! 10 years on response is really more than enough.

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lostjanni · 12/04/2018 22:32

Vicar have you just criticised the police? Oh dear shall I report that?

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stillvicarinatutu · 12/04/2018 22:32

Oh no I've reported myself. I'm happy to go actually! Far too much of this shit! I'm not bluffing. I've seriously had enough. I don't mind psd getting involved or my going. Jesus it would be a blessed relief!

stillvicarinatutu · 12/04/2018 22:34

I've emailed my inspector. Op thanks.

lostjanni · 12/04/2018 22:35

Vicar. Ok well bye guys I will be back.

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janetlane · 12/04/2018 22:39

This is a wired thread. Why can't everyone just agree it is the elderly couple who have really suffered.

stitchglitched · 12/04/2018 22:41

Because that wouldn't give vicar enough attention. The non stop flounces didn't do it so now she is upsetting the OP who has done fuck all wrong with threats of reporting her. Just nasty.

stillvicarinatutu · 12/04/2018 22:42

You need to be really really careful. I got reported which is why I've informed my inspector. They can do what they want now. Reported to my inspector for that reason.

janetlane · 12/04/2018 22:44

Has the op gone then? Vicar didn't the op say they hadn't sent it?

Springiscoming123 · 12/04/2018 22:46

Hmm dont fret op i think its a blag,vicar seems to have taken on the role as spokesman for the police

Aeroflotgirl · 12/04/2018 22:46

Thank god I am just a stay at home mum and no way connected to The Police. What a strange turn this thread has taken.

stitchglitched · 12/04/2018 22:47

Vicar might report you to your husband if you're not careful Aero.

Springiscoming123 · 12/04/2018 22:47

QT pre recorded,oh no but still watching

Ggggrrrrrrr · 12/04/2018 22:49

Grrrrrrr ... Angry a young man is dead. Dead. end of. Dead. Sad

His children are now without a daddy. His children who have done nothing wrong and were unfortunate enough to have been born into a troubled family. His children who probably already were not having the easiest start to life. These children have lost their father. For goodness sake where is the compassion for these kids.

Vincent's family are grieving their daddy, their brother, their SON. I cannot imagine how on Earth it feels to loose a son. No matter what he did, who he was, how terrible his deeds. He was someone's son. If he was my son I would feel empty to the bottom of my heart. I may also feel angry with everyone and everything, even if I had no right to.

I know they r not grieving like many people would. I know the pensioner was in the right, not the wrong. I know that poor pensioner will be distressed for a long time to come and we should all feel for him. I know he didn't deserve for a criminal to come into his home and attack him and frighten him.

BUT - that pensioner killed this family's son / brother / daddy. Albeit fairly and in self defence. But nonetheless, in the eyes of the family - he took away their son and dad. Of course they feel angry. Yes it's not the pensioners fault - but people don't think straight when someone has died.

Why so so so much hate. Vincent is dead. If you want to hate someone, hate him. His kids though - they need to see a bit less hate. They need some compassion.

Where is the humanity.

Stop hating.

Vincent was once a kid. There are thousands like him suffering. We feel sorry for these children when they are small. But when abused kids from troubled homes grow up to commit the crimes we knew they would when they were small and did nothing about it - we punish. We shout hate. We want death.

Stopping crime is everyone's responsibility.

If baby P had lived he probably would have been a Vincent.

If you r the ones calling this family scum. Why are you also not looking to stop future kids turning out this way? Are you volunteern to help troubled kids? Working with young offenders? Getting involved in early interventions in schools? Reaching out to try and change things??????

Or are you just shouting and hating and doing nothing

Angry sorry for the rant. I am just so fed up with the lack of humanity and the hate exhibited on this thread. Angry

Aeroflotgirl · 12/04/2018 22:50

Oh god, that might happen, I think DH has the same feelings on this as me 😃😃

stillvicarinatutu · 12/04/2018 22:50

I do and have always agreed that they were the victims. A special should get the police position on this. They shouldn't be making the police look worse for upholding the law. There truly is a social media policy and they have breached that. I probably have arguing it. Difference is I'm not that bothered. Worst they can do? Sack me! I've been looking to return to my former career as I've truly had enough of policing. It's quite shit. Made worse by helpful folk who ride along and do the job by proxy. There is a clear breach of our own codes of practice here and I'm just shocked anyone who does this job can stab us who do it full time I. The back so readily. Psd would investigate if it were reported. Can I be arsed !? Probably not. I'd rather get out now to be honest.

janetlane · 12/04/2018 22:50

I tried messaging the op, but I can't. I think vicar has honestly made her run away Angry

janetlane · 12/04/2018 22:52

Vicar did you report then? I just want the thread to go back on track as I thought it was a good thread.

Aeroflotgirl · 12/04/2018 22:54

Gggg where is their compassion then! Why should we feel compassion for them, when they woukd not afford us the same. They are threatening an old man, and intimidating and menacing, they are nasty vicious individuals, who woukd not piss on yiu if yiu were on fire. you really do sound deluded.

HelenaDove · 12/04/2018 22:54

"Where is the humanity?"

I often wonder this when im on the social housing threads!!

SaucyJane · 12/04/2018 22:54

Vicar has just made the thread about her. Bizarre behaviour.

Slievenamon · 12/04/2018 22:54

Why can't everyone just agree it is the elderly couple who have really suffered

Because its never that simple?

stillvicarinatutu · 12/04/2018 22:55

I've reported myself. Emailed my inspector with the link and said do what they need to do.
The op said they'd report me so I've done it.