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Drunk DH pissed a little on the floor

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TheWonderfulCat · 31/03/2018 20:18

I woke up to see/hear drunk DH piss on the laundry floor a bit then end up in the laundry sink, I am disgusted and want to leave it for him to mop up.
We dont have any dc to step in it and only the cat is inside, would I BU to leave it for him?
Hes never done this before!

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treaclesoda · 31/03/2018 20:19

Yes, I'd lock the cat out and leave him to clean it up when he is able to.

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TheWonderfulCat · 31/03/2018 20:19

I will mention its not a little dribble on the floor, theres a decent amount, most ended up in the sink though

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Bananalanacake · 31/03/2018 20:20

Yes. His mess he clears. Good it's not a regular occurrence.

Idontdowindows · 31/03/2018 20:20

Yah, I'd leave it for him to clean up.

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TheWonderfulCat · 31/03/2018 20:20

Good idea, might bring the cat in with me

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ScattyCharly · 31/03/2018 20:21

If you want him to see it when sober, take a photo.

No way would I leave a puddle of piss on a laundry room floor. I’d clean it up right away.

LipstickHandbagCoffee · 31/03/2018 20:22

Where is he now?if he’s asleep put him in recovery position
Google or YouTube recovery position if you’re unfamiliar with it

PoppyCracker · 31/03/2018 20:22

My husband has never done this. Not in the 15yrs we've been together. Until a few months ago he got so blotto at the work party he came home and pissed ON ME in bed Blush. He thought he was in the bathroom and woke up to a few angry text messages I sent him while lying there seething at 4am and smelling the pee on the rug.

I still havent let him live it down.

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TheWonderfulCat · 31/03/2018 20:23

Hes on the couch, i cant shift him unfortunately, I have arthiritis in my shoulder

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TheWonderfulCat · 31/03/2018 20:25

Oh wow, I would have lost my head if he peed on me!

So who cleaned the rug?

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Aquamarine1029 · 31/03/2018 20:26

I would be livid if my husband got that drunk, never minded pissing about the house. Disgusting.

ImGoingForATwix · 31/03/2018 20:26

😷

I'd clean it up, just because I wouldn't want a puddle of piss stinking the place up/soaking into flooring etc.

But bloody hell. I'd be very pissed off 😏.

ComedyBoobs · 31/03/2018 20:27

Rub his nose in it & hope he doesn't do it again?
I'm not sure how to train an adult in where to piss but hth

Aprilmightmemynewname · 31/03/2018 20:27

Regularly Sunday night's my exh pissed in my wardrobe. He often missed a Monday at work doing the washing.
Was glad to be rid of him - disgusting specimen.

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TheWonderfulCat · 31/03/2018 20:30

Imgoingforatwix

I think you're right.. I cant get back to sleep now I know its there. I only mopped the Bloody house the other day too Angry

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user838383 · 31/03/2018 20:30

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gillybeanz · 31/03/2018 20:30

OMG, the more I read on here the more I realise what wankers are out there.
What grown up would get in such a state that they piss themselves?

LipstickHandbagCoffee · 31/03/2018 20:35

Ok in that case keep his airways clear position his arm/hand under his head,turn head to side
If you can roll him onto side.Prop a backpack against him to prevent rolling back

Recovery position

Talk in the morning

katzensocken · 31/03/2018 20:35

I properly don't understand when guys do this. Is it really that hard to take a piss in the bathroom (in the TOILET, not on the floor) - he found his way into the laundry room as a preferred venue?

Imagine if you hadn't seen it and cheerily got to handwashing stuff in the sink the next day!

You don't really hear of women doing this, lbh. Either learn to piss where you should be pissing or cut yourself off the alcohol before your limit.

DarkPeakScouter · 31/03/2018 20:41

It’s only on mumsnet that I hear of men pissing in sinks and cupboards Confused I’d go nuts

Sesimbra · 31/03/2018 20:43

I agree with boopsy

I can't believe some of the disgusting shit some women tolerate.

I hope you are OK OP Flowers

kikashi · 31/03/2018 20:44

DarkPeak you have lived a sheltered life.

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TheWonderfulCat · 31/03/2018 20:47

Im okay, annoyed, but otherwise okay

Just not sure if I should leave it for him or not :/

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kikashi · 31/03/2018 20:49

Leave it.Tell him he pished all over the utlity room when he wakes up and it needs cleaning.

WaxOnFeckOff · 31/03/2018 20:51

My DB once went in his wardrobe and peed in the corner - he thought he had gone to the bathroom. :(