DD1 is 5. She was given a birthday invite 2-3 weeks
Now SIL has invited all of us to go to her place for a party, its 2 hours away and 2 hours before the birthday invite.
For me, its a matter of principle and the first invite takes priority, but dh is saying its silly as his sister's party is more closer and involves the whole family going so we should go to that.
WWYD?