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Aibu to think he’ll struggle coming back from this (Ant)

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Fruitbat1980 · 18/03/2018 23:17

What a stupid boy. Worth 60 million and doesn’t get a taxi. I just don’t know how he’ll come back from this latest fiasco (drink drive car crash hits 3 year old).

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shesakeeper · 24/03/2018 10:37

Emmageddon, I do believe Ant sold his wedding to OK mag...

GayAllen · 24/03/2018 10:45

Super injunctions only apply in the U.K. don’t they? In which case it could get out anyway? Like with Elton and his husband?

GayAllen · 24/03/2018 10:46

Dec must be bloody furious with him.

LoveBakeOff · 24/03/2018 10:51

I only feel bad for Dec. I love them both, well not Ant anymore and I didn't like him as much as Dec anyway, but Ant has royally screwed them over for such a stupid decision. If he has any decency left, he will do his rehab, accept time in prison, then disappear. He shouldn't be on TV again. It's not as if they need the money anyway. Just a shame that Dec suffers from this too.

whirlygirly · 24/03/2018 11:04

Time for itv to have a massive overhaul I think. It's been the same old clique of people for way too long. Dec will be fine; it's not like he needs to work again although I'm sure he still can and will.
Think the whole double act thing had run its course.

ferriswheel · 24/03/2018 11:28

What happened with Elton John and his husband?

Yeah, an overhaul would be good, a smug clique is never very appealing.

Dec's nothing to worry about. Hes going to be the golden boy forever now.

LucilleBluth · 24/03/2018 11:28

Read this on another forum.

I have been hearing things about Ant having a drinking problem for the last 10 years. I live in West London near to A&D. He has been having arguments with people in pubs etc.. One famous Barley Mow incident made the press. There have been others which have not, so this is not a recent thing. Lets hope he is now getting the help that he needs

LucilleBluth · 24/03/2018 11:32

I did read this week (I've had so much work on this week and had a Thursday lunchtime deadline so I've obviously been reading all about Ant and avoiding work.....true story)...that he feels constrained by the goody goody image that they have to portray and that while Dec is quite willing Ant is a bit salty in real life.

OyO · 24/03/2018 11:43

Where do they live, Lucille? Just the area obviously, not house number and road name Grin

There are often posters on here who live just down the road from a celeb or often bump into one at their local. It’s surreal to a northern village person like me so I’m always intrigued.

MsGameandWatching · 24/03/2018 12:16

I used to live next door but one to Ralph Fiennes 0v0. We were on nodding terms.

Mrsfloss · 24/03/2018 12:30

Surely this thread is going to go pfft any minute

FlashTheSloth · 24/03/2018 12:34

The area of London where they live is widely known, I've seen it mentioned in the papers before.

DullAndOld · 24/03/2018 12:37

I suppose they live in W11 ..:)

NinjagoNinja · 24/03/2018 13:03

Ant and Dec live in Chiswick.

TheGruffalosArse · 24/03/2018 13:09

I'm quite angry that Lisa is being hung out to dry to save Ant (and that arsehole he's been sleeping with)

I've never really watched SNT but I can't wait to watch it tonight Blush

enpointeredshoes · 24/03/2018 13:39

What a mess is SNL on tonight!Shock

NinjagoNinja · 24/03/2018 14:18

It's not on tonight. Next Sat and the one after. I've actually never seen it, I expect loads of people will tune in just out of curiosity now.

NinjagoNinja · 24/03/2018 14:20

Lisa's crime is not being slim and looking 41, which she is.

The subtext of all the mean pictures of her is "can you blame him, look at the state of her". It's very, very cruel and must take its toll on her mental health.

NinjagoNinja · 24/03/2018 14:27

I agree with the poster who said she has given the best years of her life to him and has been dumped at a very vulnerable age. He'll no doubt sort himself out eventually and shack up with someone 10 years younger and start a family.

I don't believe people should have to stay with their spouse if they don't love them anymore but the shagging around is despicable. And I seethed at the tone of his divorce statement.

“In response to the recent speculation in the media, Ant is very sad to announce that, after 11 years, he is ending his marriage to Lisa McPartlin.

“Ant asks for privacy at this difficult time, for both himself, Lisa and their immediate families. No further statement will be made.”

  1. He is making it clear he is doing the dumping.
  2. She never changed her name - her name is Armstrong.

Higher profile couples than them have divorced and the statement is always joint, also mutual - even when we know it's just for appearances. It's the polite way to operate. He and his PR people are scumbags.

IHaveBrilloHair · 24/03/2018 14:27

I think Lisa's crime, in the eyes of the media, is not being Ant.

Poor woman, she must be having a terrible time, I hope she has a good support network.

MorningsEleven · 24/03/2018 14:32

*NinjagoNinja&

I quite agree. If she were as rough as the papers portray her, she wouldn't have maintained her career.

raisedbyguineapigs · 24/03/2018 20:02

Everyone is also assuming the fertility problems are hers and he has stuck it out despite her not being able to give him children, so he'll just shack up with a teenager and pop out babies. If he's such a heavy drinker, the problem could just as easily be with him and she has stuck it out with him only to be dumped now. I agree the pictures of her have been the most unflattering they can find. Her sucking on a cigarette, (because obviously smoking is something Ant would never do) and with no makeup on probably because she's going to work or is just going to the shops or work.

BennyTheBall · 24/03/2018 20:08

I feel sorry for all of them - for Ant for reaching rock bottom, for Dec and the impact on their brand and particularly for Lisa who has been so personally and horribly slagged off for her looks and no doubt hounded by the sleaze paps to get horrible photos of her.

Bundlesmads · 24/03/2018 20:17

Thing is though, even if it’s the bloke who has the fertility problem it’s the woman who has to go through the invasive treatment. Which makes it even worse if it was him TBH. And if it was his problem and Lisa gave up her chance of having kids to stick by him that’s worse.

DearMrDilkington · 24/03/2018 20:35

I don't understand the why the press keep taking photos of Lisa smoking, Ant also smokes. Hmm