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Trans male now promoting periods.

154 replies

Eliza9917 · 18/03/2018 08:44

www.independent.co.uk/life-style/period-campaign-transgender-male-model-kenny-jones-face-pink-parcel-im-on-stigma-a8257131.html

'A transgender male model has been announced as the face of a new campaign aiming to challenge the stigma around periods.'

Just why?

OP posts:
Skarossinkplunger · 18/03/2018 09:33

But from everything I've read about transmen, in general they do not like having periods. Obviously. So to promote it seems strange when it's something they like to avoid having to confront.

Does anyone like having periods?

JennyJames · 18/03/2018 09:33

I honestly get confused by this.

I’m expected to embrace that Kenny used to be a women

But if i want to speak about Lily Madigan being a man in the past, I’m dead naming and committing literal acts of violence?

Skarossinkplunger · 18/03/2018 09:33

Cross post Jay

Tinycitrus · 18/03/2018 09:34

Why should anyone give a crap about periods?

Really? It’s a bodily function. It’s part of being a biological woman. You use sanitary protection. Job done.

OohMavis · 18/03/2018 09:36

Well, no Grin

I was getting at the fact that a lot of transmen say that periods are traumatic and triggering.

Gileswithachainsaw · 18/03/2018 09:37

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tameka · 18/03/2018 09:38

Just wondered if this person now actually has a penis which makes him a man?

CapnHaddock · 18/03/2018 09:38

It's just more misogyny. 99% of people that have periods don't look like men. But we're not good enough to advertise something that only impacts women. It has to be someone who looks like a bloke because virtue signalling is more important than communicating with the audience they're presumably trying to reach. How fucking tedious

YetAnotherSpartacus · 18/03/2018 09:38

Jenny James it's perfectly simple.

Man - has a dick can define as he wants and say what he wants.
Transwoman - used to be a man and have a dick (some still have) so can define as they want and say what they want.
Transman - literally or symbolically has the sacred phallus so can define as they want and say what they want.
Woman - has a cunt and needs to shut up and obey all the above.

DixieFlatline · 18/03/2018 09:38

@Booboobooboo84

Ah so if he wants to go female to male your all ok with that and happy to deny he has periods and also happy to call them him. But if a man wants to transition to a woman your all up in arms. I get it now.

At the time you posted this response, one poster was confused and thought it was a TIM advertising periods (which they would not be having), and one poster referred to the person as 'he' while acknowledging that they would previously have had periods.

So who on earth are 'all' these people your post is directed at? Not a single poster had done what you are claiming. Utterly bizarre. Is this a reading comprehension issue, or were you just so eager to jump in and accuse people that you didn't bother to wait and tailor your accusations to something that was actually based in reality?

CapnHaddock · 18/03/2018 09:38

Kenny had periods for a whole 3 years. Poor Kenny

brizzledrizzle · 18/03/2018 09:39

It's a complete waste of time, I mean we're all women who are more than capable of dealing with emotions about periods and going in a supermarket and buying appropriate products rather than special little snowflakes who need our hand holding.

Trans/post-menopause/male/female/whatever it's all futile.

delusionsrus · 18/03/2018 09:40

Seems a very odd choice of 'role model'. Someone who so hated being a woman that they transed to being a man being presented to women as a role model and encouraging talking about periods -which they hated and were pleased when they stopped Hmm
And I thought it was 'transphobic' to dead name someone and refer back to their past life as the opposite sex ? Or is that only when women do it?

JennyJames · 18/03/2018 09:41

YetAnother

Yeah, that’s what I thought.

IamnotClaireVoyant · 18/03/2018 09:45

No, Tinycitrus - you've got it all wrong because you're a woman You need to "unite periods with pampering" and shell out £13 a month for a Pink Parcel full of landfill boxes with "femcare", sample of chocolate to "aid blood flow", a sachet of herbal tea and some beauty product samples. Oh and you need to spend a similar amount for a Betty Box for your teen daughter because periods are so embarrassing and awful.

Then you can buy a "tee" with a slogan saying periods aren't embarrassing. And there's a bloke advertising that "tee" Hmm

Tinycitrus · 18/03/2018 09:46

Why are they patronising us with this nonsense?

FFS Hmm

PussyTrumpHat · 18/03/2018 09:48

Trans is a bloody career move
And incredibly boring. Can they talk about anything else

TERFragetteCity · 18/03/2018 09:50

Why are they patronising us with this nonsense?

To sell product to the woke generation. Everyone knows that once you choose a product to shove in your knickers/vagina, you usually stick with it. So getting the younger generation on board with sanitary items is key to increased profits.

Nothing to do with patronising anything or anyone. Just marketing.

thenightsky · 18/03/2018 09:54

*I’m expected to embrace that Kenny used to be a women

But if i want to speak about Lily Madigan being a man in the past, I’m dead naming and committing literal acts of violence?*

^this^

We can't do right for doing wrong, us XX people.

Whydomypubeslooklikeanest · 18/03/2018 09:54

I don't think it's a bad thing.

There are so many children, whether we like it or not, dealing with feeling as though they are 'trans' and having periods too. Normalising the whole periods/trans issue can only be a good thing can't it? If we can get girls who feel trans to accept their periods/biology then there is a massive chance they won't transition.

It's not like he is the only person advertising the products anyway.

misscockerspaniel · 18/03/2018 09:56

He's female Bollocks to that.

tinclap · 18/03/2018 10:05

Bizarre sales tactics.

Is it possible that advertisers are worried about losing sales because lots of teenage girls are identifying as fluid/male/whatever? And this is a move to say "no no, you should still buy our stuff"? (or to get men who identify as women to see something they should buy just to fit in?)

ThinkingOfCeline · 18/03/2018 10:10

There are 4 other people who have been chosen as part of this campaign, all females. So the brand have decided to use a range of people to advertise in order to target a wide demographic...shocker.

This person, one of the 5 chosen, has experience of periods. Transgender people experiencing periods is a reality. Men and women need to talk about menstruation more because it shouldn't be embarrassing to experience a normal bodily function and associated health needs should be a higher priority globally. If the use of a transgender model means the campaign is noticed by a few more people I don't think that's a bad thing.

Aftershock15 · 18/03/2018 10:11

I read about this earlier this week (maybe in the Standard) and the most amazing statement in the the article was that trans men were only mentioned in 8% advertising/articles about periods and how this was fighting to increase that. So it’s already disproportionately included (unless we think 8% of people who have periods identify as male) and yet we need more inclusion. Mad and proving what a ME ME ME craziness this issue is.

OohMavis · 18/03/2018 10:11

Why's it bollocks? They were born female, they are still female. Can't identify your way out of biology.

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