The thing is, this isn't jog a couple of mornings a week. He's fixed it so he doesn't need to do housework, cook a meal when he gets in for the family, talk to his children, take the teens to any clubs/activities or wash his own dirty kit.
He's opted out of all the shit-work of cleaning, and the pleasure of being with his own children (as anyone knows, if you have teens, you often have to spend a lot of time with them, like being in the car, to get beyond grunting and 'nothing interesting' answers). And, presumably on the nights he deigns to come home, you are still washing his kit for the next night!
This is a complete abdication of being a father and husband, and I don't think similar to a quick workout on the way home. He doesn't even just do the sport, he stays longer drinking and socializing, which co-incidentally means that by 10 when he gets in, the entire evening's housework, stacking the dishwasher, cooking, cleaning, helping kids with homework, washing their kits, picking them up from clubs, has already happened. Clever, huh!
I wouldn't find this ok at all, and for the person who said no-one stands around drinking wine and chatting with their husband, I do- we don't really drink, but we chat most evenings, even for a short time, or watch a box-set, or show each other interesting things on the internet, or tell each other about our days. Not for hours, and not always intensely romantic, but the lack of connection here would do my head in, as would the expectation that you, also working, would be washing his kit!
Something has to give in this scenario.