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AIBU to think that the ladies are disgusting

153 replies

Limphandshakes · 12/03/2018 19:57

I’m fed up of walking into the ladies toilets into restaurants let alone bars or pubs and finding the ladies toilets littered with toilet role and what I am assuming pee! Why can’t anyone wipe or put it down the toilet/bin?!?

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Greyponcho · 13/03/2018 17:54

worstwitch gets my logic - I can wash my hands pretty much immediately after

LadyofMisrule · 04/04/2018 17:54

I used to run a pub. The men's loos were always much worse than the ladies' loos.

WhoAteMyBiscuit · 04/04/2018 18:14

I wonder sometimes whether unflushed toilets are because the cistern hasn't filled properly since the last flush so the last user had to leave it?

I've been to China and used the "facilities" in restaurants, hotels and public conveniences on several occasions - THAT is an eye opening (occasionally eye watering) experience! Confused

SingingTunelessly · 04/04/2018 18:15

When oh when will you get fed up?

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Babybeesmama · 04/04/2018 18:24

You are right! I cannot fathom how people manage to shit on the back of toilet seats?!? Why? And how would you even do it! 🙈

On our last trip to Center Parcs someone left a carrier bag of sick in a family changing room 🤮 .. who are these people?!

lanbro · 04/04/2018 18:26

I have a coffee shop and we know to immediately check the toilet after certain customers...seems even worse that they must realise that we know it was them but they still leave a mess!

KM99 · 04/04/2018 18:29

My very first job involved cleaning a pub. Ladies toilets were always 10 times more disgusting than the gents.

SingingTunelessly · 04/04/2018 18:30

“Women are fucking gross in general. I use the men’s at work (because they aren’t any on my floor). The ladies either have shit on the seat, period on the outside bowl bit or piss everywhere tbuenvy

PoorYorick · 04/04/2018 18:30

Given how many people on MN claim to 'hover' over public toilets (ffs), it's really not surprising if there's urine everywhere.

Elendon · 04/04/2018 18:37

Give me a woman's loo to clean any day.

Shit all up the walls in a man's loo tells me there will be sperm in there as well.

Vomit. Men vomit into the sink.

Piss. Men piss on the floor and the sink.

Urinals. Homes don't have them for a reason. Sperm and shit smeared.

I'm a woman, I had periods and am used to blood. I'm not disgusted that my body on a monthly basis expelled blood.

What I don't understand is the person who shits in a public toilet and can't be bothered to clean up or cover the smell after. Fucking vile.

LastGirlOnTheLeft · 04/04/2018 18:38

Peppa don't be so fucking thick!

Babdoc · 04/04/2018 18:39

Stop blaming " hoverers" for spilled pee on loo seats! We don't use the seat, because we're hovering! We lift the seat up to make more room to hover.
I suspect the shit on the back of the seat is due to obese people whose bum is so massive it doesn't fit over the hole accurately. Or projectile diarrhoea, that the dirty twerps then walk away from without mopping up. Unflushed loos are prob due to a queue waiting to use it, so no time for the cistern to fill enough for a flush between users.
Mess on the floor is probably either unsupervised kids or drunks.
Must say, I don't find any of this in decent quality restaurants. I try to avoid public loos, and only use home or restaurant ones.

PoorYorick · 04/04/2018 18:39

What I don't understand is the person who shits in a public toilet and can't be bothered to clean up or cover the smell after. Fucking vile.

I'm always surprised at how many don't have toilet brushes or air freshener.

Elendon · 04/04/2018 18:43

All toilets should have toilet roll. PoorYorick If your shit is that smelly take it home.

If it sticks too much to the sides and the seat and obviously your bum then see a fucking doctor.

Or bring wipes if you know you have this condition. And plastic bags.

PoorYorick · 04/04/2018 18:44

PoorYorick If your shit is that smelly take it home.

Toilets are for shitting in, if you don't like that then YOU take it home.

DailyMailReadersAreThick · 04/04/2018 18:46

Hoverers should be banned from public toilets. And grow up in general to be honest.

GladAllOver · 04/04/2018 18:47

Another hoverer here.
I put the seat up using a piece of toilet paper, and put a hand behind me on the wall or cistern for support.
I never, ever, drip on the rim. It all goes down the bowl.

frankchickens · 04/04/2018 18:47

I went for a wee in the plane recently and it was awash with piss in there - I reckon it was either some stupid bloke trying to pee standing up or a hoverer.

Elendon · 04/04/2018 18:48

PoorYorick

Toilets are for peeing in.

If you need to shit and you know it's smells of the dead arisen, reburied, and then arose again, take it home! But then again some people get off on shitting like that in public.

PoorYorick · 04/04/2018 18:49

Why on earth do you hover? What are you afraid will happen?

There aren't many things men can do that women truly can't, but pissing standing up is one of them.

GladAllOver · 04/04/2018 18:49

Crossed with DM.
Try it my way!

GladAllOver · 04/04/2018 18:50

York because it's cleaner.

PoorYorick · 04/04/2018 18:51

If you need to shit and you know it's smells of the dead arisen, reburied, and then arose again, take it home!

If you need to shit, you need to shit. It's never going to smell like Chanel No 5, I'm afraid. Toilets are for shitting in, not giving yourself cramps and constipation because of idiots.

It is indeed disgusting when people don't clean the bowl or spray, but if there's nothing to clean the bowl or spray with, what are they supposed to do?

But then again some people get off on shitting like that in public.

I'll take your word for it!

esk1mo · 04/04/2018 18:51

they keep shutting the toilets at my gym because of disgusting women who are flushing tampons, towels or 3 metres of toilet roll. the management KEEP putting up signs asking for a more conservative approach, and to use the sanitart bins provided, but nah, they do as they please.

this leaves only 1 disabled toilet for hundreds of women, which isnt fair on disabled people who have to wait to use it who normally wouldnt have to.

horrible.