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Has he lost interest?

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Feelingweirdaboutit · 09/03/2018 23:14

Had second/third date with new guy, he seemed very keen and we were getting on very well - similar interests and outlooks, long chats when we met and enjoyed getting to know him.

After our last date (yesterday) he has gone a bit distant. It started and ended a little awkwardly but the experience was good, we were making each other laugh and chatting away as if we were old friends. I was a little late at the beginning (apologised) and then went up to the wrong person (mortifying) as was in a panic and they’re both very tall. He must have seen but kept quiet... we then went for food and had a nice time before he invited me to his “for a drink” - I accepted as didn’t want it to be awkward but declined the offer if anything more at his, saying I wanted to get to know him better but that we would soon. Lots of kissing though.

He messaged to check is got home safe but apart from a banterous reply to my message back, there has been nothing. I still don’t know how I feel about him but did like what I saw and got the feeling he was into me. Feel a bit shit now

OP posts:
jkl0311 · 16/03/2018 16:08

OP I read that last few texts with a familiar cringe from my time on the dating scene.... they are replying out of politeness not to pursue a long term relationship I remember theses texts too well. Please save your dignity and accept you have been friend zoned. It hurts but we are here to be honest.

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