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He said, I know you like it like that

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ironbrew · 28/02/2018 14:07

AIBU to have the nark because my DP said 'I know you like it like that' in bed this morning. The thing is, I don't 'like it like that' and I immediately thought it may have been something he would have said to his ex girlfriend because she 'liked it like that'.

I know it IS unreasonable to think like this but it pissed me off.

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Confusedbeetle · 28/02/2018 15:56

Actually it might not have been relating to another partner, he might have read the wrong signals during, as great pleasure! Or maybe something he guiltily really wanted to try. In any case, it is up to you "sorry I gave the wrong impression. it isnt for me"

AcrossthePond55 · 28/02/2018 15:59

I probably would have laughed out loud, it sounds like a cheesy line from a porno.

DH isn't very good at the 'sexy talk' in bed. He's more a man of action not words, which is fine with me. Your DP was probably just repeating some stupid line from a book he's read or a movie he's seen.

Don't overreact. If you don't like it and he does it again, next time just say "No, I really don't". You could add "what makes you think I do?" if you're really curious, but be prepared for the answer to be "I don't know".

BeesAndChiscuits · 28/02/2018 16:01

Hoping your most recent post wasn’t a euphemism for that

HughLauriesStubble · 28/02/2018 16:02

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andhardlyanywomenatall · 28/02/2018 16:05

"Obviously none of us can possibly advise you properly unless we know exactly what this "move" was grin"

au contraire....

Teutonic · 28/02/2018 16:11

First off he tells you that you like something which even you don't know if you like or not.
Then he takes your biscuit
😱😱
You need to LTB. Get your ducks in a row, pack his bags, change the locks and log it with 101.

Who knows where the tyranny will end otherwise!

callmekitten · 28/02/2018 16:13

OMG! I just thought of something. Did you by any chance have a bad leg cramp? 'Cause my DH has been known to mistake a bad leg cramp for a particularly intense orgasm. Wink

Trendy1 · 28/02/2018 16:15

OMG, this is so funny. Why on earth are you asking after 2 years? Surely you have done it all. Why would he save something new for that long? I think we really need to know what it was, in order to give you the best advice...

pinkcandy84 · 28/02/2018 16:20

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Ribrabrob · 28/02/2018 16:26

Wow you sound extremely paranoid, and just really odd as well.

rollingonariver · 28/02/2018 16:28

Mm yadbu ! It's just something people say during sex? He's not thinking of anyone else ffs.

beckieperk · 28/02/2018 16:35

Read through most of the posts now and think it might now strike me as odd. 2 years together....as pp's have said surely all sexual bases (both like/want) have been covered multiple times......so where has he suddenly learnt this new move....and also to think she likes it?! Hmm Possibly from a movie explains the new move....not sure about the other bit. Think it might bug me too.....just ask him.

andhardlyanywomenatall · 28/02/2018 16:35

did he sound like this?

lostincumbria · 28/02/2018 16:38

Did you mishear? Did he say "I know you like Take That?" . Was he role--playing as Gary Barlow?

MN164 · 28/02/2018 16:38

Late to this one. He communicates something (albeit presumptious, odd, irritating) and you communicate nothing back. Perhaps more communication is required, at least so he knows what you are thinking?

Teutonic · 28/02/2018 16:39

Now I've got images of the OPs Husband bonking her while eating biscuits and watching the open, while shouting ' you like that don't you '. 😂
Was there a hole in one per chance?

VladmirsPoutine · 28/02/2018 16:41

Why did you think immediately of his ex? Do you think it might have been a misguided attempt at dirty talk?

Who can know if you are being unreasonable if you drop a bomb then run away? Confused

DextroDependant · 28/02/2018 16:50

It's a common thing for men to say isn't it. Oh yea baby you like that don't you. Makes me cringe but have definitely heard it from more than one guy.

Trendy1 · 28/02/2018 16:52

Perhaps the OP could return...

Lookatmenow · 28/02/2018 16:54

If it was something neither of you had done TOGETHER before and you wasn't showing you DIDN'T like (so maybe showing him you were enjoying it/engaging in it) and IT may have been something that was getting HIS rocks off to - he might have said it more to him than you - so to speak!!!! and thought yeah this is great, this is fucking excellent, feels fantastic.... "yeah, i know you like it like that" cos he surely was liking it

Nothing wrong with that. Did you like it? but once the thought that he MUST HAVE BEEN THINKING OF EX - you now don't like it.

And if you didn't like it - don't do it again and tell him you didn't like it

Grown up sex = grown up conversations

These days so little people actually talk to eachother, they just bear grudges!!!

StaplesCorner · 28/02/2018 16:58

Bourbon?

StaplesCorner · 28/02/2018 16:58

Custard cream?

StaplesCorner · 28/02/2018 16:59

Surely not a chocolate finger?!!! Shock

DalekDalekDalek · 28/02/2018 17:06

I don't think you should analyse what a man says during sex too much. Their brains don't exactly have the dibs on the blood flow, do they?

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