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He said, I know you like it like that

140 replies

ironbrew · 28/02/2018 14:07

AIBU to have the nark because my DP said 'I know you like it like that' in bed this morning. The thing is, I don't 'like it like that' and I immediately thought it may have been something he would have said to his ex girlfriend because she 'liked it like that'.

I know it IS unreasonable to think like this but it pissed me off.

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Handsfull13 · 28/02/2018 14:51

YANBU even if it was in the evening and you were in the best mood with all the time in the world it would still piss you off and rightly so.
Tell him you don't like it like that and if he says it again you'll kick him out of bed.

KurriKurri · 28/02/2018 14:53

Biscuits aside, he needs to get with the programme and find some better sex banter.
'I know you like it like that' is 1/10 at best.

TitsalinaBumSquash · 28/02/2018 14:53

Surely he thought you 'liked it like that' due to your response to whatever it was he was doing? That's how I would look at it rather than him thinking of an ex who liked it like that.

cakecakecheese · 28/02/2018 14:54

Perhaps he just thinks any women likes whatever he did, I wouldn't say it was specific to his ex unless he's mentioned she did like whatever it was.

InsomniacAnonymous · 28/02/2018 14:55

He's obviously thinking of someone else, so get your ducks in a row and LTB.

Not really, but this is MN and I was surprised no one had said that yet, so I thought I'd better. Wink

Whatshallidonowpeople · 28/02/2018 14:57

Come on OP, we all want to know what the move was

starbrightnight · 28/02/2018 14:57

I get what you mean and I would feel the same except I would have said something there and then, lwhat makes you think I like it like that?' And 'That's not something we've ever done before so I don't know who you were thinking about but it wasn't me.' That would just be the start of the conversation and I imagine there might be a fair bit of attitude in my tone and body language from there on in until he has explained himself.

Alwayslumpyporridge · 28/02/2018 14:57

Cancel the cheque OP!

IfNot · 28/02/2018 14:58

Something he had never done before..two years in...hmmm..did he leave his socks on?

Sn0tnose · 28/02/2018 14:58

I was annoyed enough because it was snowing and had to be up early So why on earth were you having sex with him in the first place?

Is there a back story? Why do you think he'd be thinking of an ex partner after being with you for two years?

IfNot · 28/02/2018 14:59

It was cold this morning to be fair.

MorningCuppa · 28/02/2018 15:02

Maybe that's why his ex is an ex now, because she didn't "like it, like that"

Or are we talking about tea and biscuits? Hmm

Corkscrewbetty · 28/02/2018 15:04

Ah... he probably just got a bit carried away and thought he was doing good dirty talk. I once asked my BF to try some dirty talk... know what he said... ? "Open your legs, you dirty cunt". I cried and cried.

FleetwoodSmack · 28/02/2018 15:10

Is stealing your biscuit a metaphor? Surely no one tries anal for the first time just before the alarm clock goes off, though?

AskingForAnEnemy · 28/02/2018 15:14

I think it depends how he said it. Did he say it in a cringy porn way or state it as a fact?

How do you know what his ex liked in bed?

I need to know what the "move" was because I'm nosey as fuck

JoyceDivision · 28/02/2018 15:16

Corkscrewbetty....

Shock

Please tell us the reactions after that!

YaBasic · 28/02/2018 15:26

Anyone else got a salsa Pete Rodriguez I like it like that earworm going on?!

callmekitten · 28/02/2018 15:28

You are way over thinking this. And I will tell you from experience, there is no faster way to kill a good sex life (and relationship)

kubex · 28/02/2018 15:30

If you've been together 2 years, why are you even worried about his ex?!

And why have you let it bother you all day instead of just asking him about it?

You seem a bit odd tbh

BigSandyBalls2015 · 28/02/2018 15:34

Corkscrewbetty - Grin, now everyone in my open plan office wants to know why I'm laughing and snorting coffee everywhere!

Suburbanfocks · 28/02/2018 15:34

Maybe he's done it like that before but you never really noticed because he didn't announce it and actually you do quite like it?
I had 'oh yeah you love that, don't you' once. He probably didn't expect me to reply '...not particularly' passion killer, me?

MrJollyLivesNextDoor · 28/02/2018 15:37

Well I'm single and gagging for it
I would have loved it like that this morning (whatever it was)

Jammy cow

picklemepopcorn · 28/02/2018 15:48

I'm giggling at this thread! I hope you are ok, OP, while we have a giggle. Some of the responses are very funny, but I can understand you not liking what he said.

Lovemusic33 · 28/02/2018 15:54

I don’t think he was thinking of his ex, he obviously thought you were enjoying it, maybe you looked like you where? And if you weren’t enjoying it you should have told him.

Mrjolly me too, can’t remember the last time I had morning sex.

Lovemusic33 · 28/02/2018 15:55

Was it anal? Because I don’t like it like that either Grin

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