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Original poster

Is he desperate?

174 replies

Whatislife123 · 24/02/2018 22:36

Hello, what do you all make of this? I have been going to a public place, wont say where as possibly outing, with my DS and his father. Although me and DS' s father are not together we still go out as a family and may well look like we are in a relationship.
Anyway we go to this public place everyweek and a person that is employed there has made it very obvious that he likes me. He smiles and stares. The usual stuff to show he 'likes me'.
However in that time I have been pregnant and had my DD, which he is aware of, and he is still giving me hints that he 'likes me'. I also believe he thinks I like him as 2 years ago I stared at him for no particular reason but since then I have given him no 'hints'.
I do not get why this bloke would pursue me withme having two children and a 'partner'. AIBU unfair to think he is desperate

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MadMags · 26/02/2018 14:39

OP, I know you’re being “funny” but I actually think it’s a bit sad that you’re this self-involved.

Like, you’ve convinced yourself some bloke in Costa is besotted with you based on literally nothing more than a look and a smile.

You’re embarrassing yourself.

Original poster
Whatislife123 · 26/02/2018 15:10

That is your opinion and I have mine. No need to be embarrassed for me. And ofcourse he is besotted. It is all in his eyes haha

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Coconutspongexo · 26/02/2018 16:45

What’s there to be besotted about?

Nothing attractive about someone who would eat themselves if they were a bar of chocolate

Original poster
Whatislife123 · 26/02/2018 17:05

GIMME CHOCOLATE!!!!😂

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Mimithemouse · 26/02/2018 17:56

Men do stare sometimes if they see a woman they like, it doesn't really mean anything though, catching your eye and smiling is just a way of passing the time in his job, and he probably doesn't give you a second thought after you've left.

Original poster
Whatislife123 · 26/02/2018 18:03

But what if I come in his dreams atleast twice per week. What would that mean? 😂

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Coconutspongexo · 26/02/2018 18:07

It means you’re delusional

Wishimaywishimight · 26/02/2018 18:12

I'm sure you're very attractive OP but you do sound quite daft.

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Whatislife123 · 26/02/2018 18:22

CRAZY IN LOVE 😝😝

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mummsyy · 26/02/2018 18:54

This is one of the biggest wind ups I've saw on MN 😂
I think you're absolutely batshit crazy OP but lets just pretend all this is real for one sec, I wouldn't speak to him and see if he does really like you just yet. As once he gets to know your absolutely horrific personality, massive arrogance issue and huge ego from all the compliments you keep feeding yourself he's going to run very fast for the fucking hills.
But good luck OP, you sound like you need it as your brain is a little bit backward 🍷

Original poster
Whatislife123 · 26/02/2018 18:59

Thank you for your indepth analysis. Right Thats my comedy sorted for another night. So thank you😂😂😘

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mummsyy · 26/02/2018 19:18

Don't worry you've gave a lot of people a right good laugh!! I'd be slightly mortified if I were you mind but very funny, good try 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

blackberryfairy · 26/02/2018 19:24

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Original poster
Whatislife123 · 26/02/2018 21:10

I scratched your back and you scratched mine on the comedy front😂😂
Still working at costa 2 years later? Maybe it is because he knows I am a regular customer and it is the only way he can see me and my sexy body Haha 😂😂

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Regularsizedrudy · 26/02/2018 21:56

I’m amazed the Costa has stayed open for 2 years. They seem to move about all over the place where I am, closing down the popping up somewhere else. And yes to someone working there for 2 years I think that’s the most unbelievable bit of the thread!

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Whatislife123 · 27/02/2018 00:12

We have quite a few costas non have shut down. Mind you they are all located in busy shopping areas
Genuine thread BTW.

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LineysHorseWithNoName · 27/02/2018 00:26

I'm sure it's genuine, OP. In life there are some women who are just more eye-catching and extraordinary and beautiful than others, and are adored from afar.

Amanda Holden is one. Nicole Kidman is another. And don't forget that top MP Lembit Opik lost his head over one of the Cheeky Girls.

And then there's Henry Bolton and Jo Marney.

You are someone's muse. One day, an aficionado will scream at your image, so moving will it be.

Like Venus stepping out of the seashell on that ancient Mediterranean shore. You need to hold your head up, and wail that you are simply the best. Better than all the rest.

Risen · 27/02/2018 00:36

Why did you stare at him two years ago? overly-invested

Maybe you're trying to out-stare each other Confused

Monty27 · 27/02/2018 00:50

He probably tells his partner, wife, mum, family, and mates about this boring same time same place family woman that keeps looking at him. Get over yourself op. 🙄

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Whatislife123 · 27/02/2018 11:47

He is definitely thinking who is this sexy mama and humming to himself ' i wanna get close to you' 😩😂

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PhelanThePain · 27/02/2018 11:59

It sounds fun in your head OP. 😂

You’d be a nightmare to live with though.

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Whatislife123 · 27/02/2018 13:14

Why so seriousGrin

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PhelanThePain · 27/02/2018 13:32

It’s a very serious issue!

Coconutspongexo · 27/02/2018 18:11

OP you’re on a blatant wind up

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