Meet the Other Phone. Protection built in.

Meet the Other Phone.
Protection built in.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Is he desperate?

174 replies

Whatislife123 · 24/02/2018 22:36

Hello, what do you all make of this? I have been going to a public place, wont say where as possibly outing, with my DS and his father. Although me and DS' s father are not together we still go out as a family and may well look like we are in a relationship.
Anyway we go to this public place everyweek and a person that is employed there has made it very obvious that he likes me. He smiles and stares. The usual stuff to show he 'likes me'.
However in that time I have been pregnant and had my DD, which he is aware of, and he is still giving me hints that he 'likes me'. I also believe he thinks I like him as 2 years ago I stared at him for no particular reason but since then I have given him no 'hints'.
I do not get why this bloke would pursue me withme having two children and a 'partner'. AIBU unfair to think he is desperate

OP posts:
PhelanThePain · 25/02/2018 19:49

Grin I only have one in my town. I can sit there all day if need be. For the cause.

MadMags · 25/02/2018 19:57

She’s on a wind up for sure!

But, do you ever notice that it’s usually always unattractive people who have this inflated ego?! Samantha Brick is a perfect example.

It’s like those X Factor contestants who are convicted they can sing. Truly bizarre.

Whatislife123 · 25/02/2018 20:31

How do I have an inflated ego? For years I thought I was unattractive. My face felt alien to me. It was only in my mid twenties that I came to appreciate myself and started liking myself and thought actually I am not bad looking at all. My face is getting better the older I get Smile.

OP posts:
Whatislife123 · 25/02/2018 20:33

Some of your replies are making me laugh. So thanks once again😘 That's my comedy sorted for a sunday. Cheers all 😘

OP posts:
Coconutspongexo · 25/02/2018 20:45

At least we haven’t been called jealous by this one 😂

Mummadeeze · 25/02/2018 20:55

I actually think I believe you. Maybe he does like the look of you and has a bit of a crush. He hasn't asked you out or anything because he thinks you are taken but he looks at you a lot because he finds you attractive. I don't think that makes him desperate however. I would just be flattered if I was you and I wouldn't have started a thread on it!

Whatislife123 · 25/02/2018 21:03

What is there to be jealous about.
The reason I started a thread is because most people would back off with the baby etc. But he hasn't. In fact his smile has got even bigger. Do not get why.

OP posts:
Coconutspongexo · 25/02/2018 21:11

😂😂😂

Whatislife123 · 25/02/2018 21:14

Glad you find it amusing. So do I Grin

OP posts:
PhelanThePain · 25/02/2018 21:17

Greater job satisfaction. Maybe he got a promotion.

Uhuhhoney · 25/02/2018 21:18

Is this a windup?

JonnyUtah · 25/02/2018 21:25

I think you're ace op and I bet young Costa man thinks so too. And why not? If you're a hottie fuck it do a bend n snap for the lolz Grin

Whatislife123 · 25/02/2018 21:32

Thanks jonny😀

OP posts:
Helpimfalling · 25/02/2018 21:32

I'm guilty of staring and smiling lots and people get wrong end of stick I'm generally just friendly and nosey but people always take it wrong like I'm interested

PhelanThePain · 25/02/2018 21:33

How do you feel about field mice help?

Helpimfalling · 25/02/2018 22:19

Omg that's strangest question I've ever been asked elaborate please are you being mean?

PhelanThePain · 25/02/2018 22:23

Grin no. If you read the thread you will see that there were earlier references to this man watching OP like a hawk and grinning like a Cheshire Cat. I suggested Op might be a field mouse. It’s a joke.

Eltonjohnssyrup · 25/02/2018 22:32

OP I really think you’ve got your wires crossed. But you have taken the ribbing you have had with good grace.

RebelRogue · 25/02/2018 22:33

OP I desperately need your help.

A man told me he liked my boots,that they're very special with the bows.

Then a few weeks later he told me again he really liked my boots.

He wants us to run off into the sunset isn't he?

Helpimfalling · 25/02/2018 22:35

@PhelanThePain ffs I should always read the posts in between damn lol

Royalfuckup · 25/02/2018 22:43

Have you seen 1 hour photo with Robin Williams OP?

Be afraid. Be very afraid.

throwawaythekey · 25/02/2018 22:43

Backing off? He's just smiled and looked at you. I won't be buying a hat any time soon. You sound bonkers. The poor lad!

Booie09 · 25/02/2018 23:44

A woman said she liked my perfume....should I be wary?? Ffs you have been going into Costa for years do you think he is a idiot not to realise that you are not a couple and you have had a baby by another man!! Build a bridge and get the Fuck over yourself!!

Whatislife123 · 26/02/2018 11:39

The ex is my baby's father. And no I will not get the fuck over myself as it is about me, myself and I 😄😘😘

OP posts:
JonnyUtah · 26/02/2018 11:40

build a bridge and get the Fuck over yourself!!

Wow that was bitchy