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Is he desperate?

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Whatislife123 · 24/02/2018 22:36

Hello, what do you all make of this? I have been going to a public place, wont say where as possibly outing, with my DS and his father. Although me and DS' s father are not together we still go out as a family and may well look like we are in a relationship.
Anyway we go to this public place everyweek and a person that is employed there has made it very obvious that he likes me. He smiles and stares. The usual stuff to show he 'likes me'.
However in that time I have been pregnant and had my DD, which he is aware of, and he is still giving me hints that he 'likes me'. I also believe he thinks I like him as 2 years ago I stared at him for no particular reason but since then I have given him no 'hints'.
I do not get why this bloke would pursue me withme having two children and a 'partner'. AIBU unfair to think he is desperate

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PhelanThePain · 25/02/2018 19:49

Grin I only have one in my town. I can sit there all day if need be. For the cause.

MadMags · 25/02/2018 19:57

She’s on a wind up for sure!

But, do you ever notice that it’s usually always unattractive people who have this inflated ego?! Samantha Brick is a perfect example.

It’s like those X Factor contestants who are convicted they can sing. Truly bizarre.

Whatislife123 · 25/02/2018 20:31

How do I have an inflated ego? For years I thought I was unattractive. My face felt alien to me. It was only in my mid twenties that I came to appreciate myself and started liking myself and thought actually I am not bad looking at all. My face is getting better the older I get Smile.

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Whatislife123 · 25/02/2018 20:33

Some of your replies are making me laugh. So thanks once again😘 That's my comedy sorted for a sunday. Cheers all 😘

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Coconutspongexo · 25/02/2018 20:45

At least we haven’t been called jealous by this one 😂

Mummadeeze · 25/02/2018 20:55

I actually think I believe you. Maybe he does like the look of you and has a bit of a crush. He hasn't asked you out or anything because he thinks you are taken but he looks at you a lot because he finds you attractive. I don't think that makes him desperate however. I would just be flattered if I was you and I wouldn't have started a thread on it!

Whatislife123 · 25/02/2018 21:03

What is there to be jealous about.
The reason I started a thread is because most people would back off with the baby etc. But he hasn't. In fact his smile has got even bigger. Do not get why.

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Coconutspongexo · 25/02/2018 21:11

😂😂😂

Whatislife123 · 25/02/2018 21:14

Glad you find it amusing. So do I Grin

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PhelanThePain · 25/02/2018 21:17

Greater job satisfaction. Maybe he got a promotion.

Uhuhhoney · 25/02/2018 21:18

Is this a windup?

JonnyUtah · 25/02/2018 21:25

I think you're ace op and I bet young Costa man thinks so too. And why not? If you're a hottie fuck it do a bend n snap for the lolz Grin

Whatislife123 · 25/02/2018 21:32

Thanks jonny😀

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Helpimfalling · 25/02/2018 21:32

I'm guilty of staring and smiling lots and people get wrong end of stick I'm generally just friendly and nosey but people always take it wrong like I'm interested

PhelanThePain · 25/02/2018 21:33

How do you feel about field mice help?

Helpimfalling · 25/02/2018 22:19

Omg that's strangest question I've ever been asked elaborate please are you being mean?

PhelanThePain · 25/02/2018 22:23

Grin no. If you read the thread you will see that there were earlier references to this man watching OP like a hawk and grinning like a Cheshire Cat. I suggested Op might be a field mouse. It’s a joke.

Eltonjohnssyrup · 25/02/2018 22:32

OP I really think you’ve got your wires crossed. But you have taken the ribbing you have had with good grace.

RebelRogue · 25/02/2018 22:33

OP I desperately need your help.

A man told me he liked my boots,that they're very special with the bows.

Then a few weeks later he told me again he really liked my boots.

He wants us to run off into the sunset isn't he?

Helpimfalling · 25/02/2018 22:35

@PhelanThePain ffs I should always read the posts in between damn lol

Royalfuckup · 25/02/2018 22:43

Have you seen 1 hour photo with Robin Williams OP?

Be afraid. Be very afraid.

throwawaythekey · 25/02/2018 22:43

Backing off? He's just smiled and looked at you. I won't be buying a hat any time soon. You sound bonkers. The poor lad!

Booie09 · 25/02/2018 23:44

A woman said she liked my perfume....should I be wary?? Ffs you have been going into Costa for years do you think he is a idiot not to realise that you are not a couple and you have had a baby by another man!! Build a bridge and get the Fuck over yourself!!

Whatislife123 · 26/02/2018 11:39

The ex is my baby's father. And no I will not get the fuck over myself as it is about me, myself and I 😄😘😘

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JonnyUtah · 26/02/2018 11:40

build a bridge and get the Fuck over yourself!!

Wow that was bitchy

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