To the OW she should join the queue

[VengefulViolet]

Ex left me after 4 years together...had suspicions there was OW and I was proven painfully right....I went through his phone records and noticed there were a few recurring numbers...one is the OW but the others I didn’t recognise so I plugged them into my contacts and checked whatsapp - 2 women who I didn’t recognise so I messaged them one night having had too much gin and they admitted they had been sleeping with my ex from Dec - present and had met on bumble...they are not aware of the OW and I suspect the OW isn’t aware of them. I despise the OW nearly as much as my ex and need talking down because all I want to do is tell her everything which would make me a bitch but it would be so satisfying....she cheated on her DP to be with my ex so karma would be served up...gin is helping to numb the pain...can’t believe my ex is so evil.

[SwarmOfCats]

I had similar sort of situation. In a relationship, suspected he was cheating but was gaslighted to fuck and stayed with him. Eventually ended it...then a few months later a woman contacted me because she was concerned about her friend, who was dating my ex. She wondered if anything had happened between us. It turns out he cheated on me with her, several other women, and I was the OW when we got together (I had no idea). He was sending me messages pleading for another chance, while with this girl.

The first he knew of his lies imploding was when he had notifications pop up on social media that all of the women he’d been shagging simultaneously for the past two years had just added each other as friends.

Anyway! We all had to go get tested, and it seems that anyone your ex has been with will probably need to be too - god knows where he’s been. You’re likely doing this woman a favour by telling her.

[Eliza9917]

As it's only been a week, she could leave your ex and convince her ex to take her back. Wait until there's definitely no chance of that and then spill all, with all the proof you can find.

[PositiveVibes18]

I would leave them to it. He isn't your problem any more.

[taylorj86]

Lashalicious I didn't read all of that (far too long), but I can gather you don't really have a grasp of what good morals are and what decent rational behaviour is.
I'm pretty sure from your anger and general tone that you have cheated in the past and think it is ok to cheat if you have been cheated on.
I will also assume the time you took to respond also contained an apology somewhere for calling me an A-hole?