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Greggers2017 · 19/02/2018 23:51

Saturday me and dp had friends coming over in the evening, all housework needed doing Saturday day as I normally do. I'd asked dp to help me, at 9am he decided to go for a bike ride with a neighbour. Said he'd be back between 11 and 12 to help.
Arrived home at 1:15. Obviously I was annoyed and had done most jobs apart from food shopping and ironing so I was obviously annoyed. Dp stayed outside talking to neighbour not coming in and needed to have shower too. I went outside and said, "don't mind me it's all done anyway". And went back inside. Dp came in and we had a row as I was arsey in front of the neighbour. Who was in the wrong me or dp?

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CherryMaDeary · 20/02/2018 19:43

So you're happy doing most of the housework even though you both work full time?

Greggers2017 · 20/02/2018 20:17

On a Saturday yes. Dp does a lot on week nights and does the cooking

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NiteFlights · 20/02/2018 20:19

Your DP was U and selfish, and I think he knows it, that's why he didn't like you saying something in front of the neighbour.

Greggers2017 · 21/02/2018 08:01

I think he knows he did wring. I went to bed for an hour when I got home from work this evening and woke up to my favourite meal and a bottle of red.

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