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How many children’s have you got?

211 replies

TwinklyGiraffe · 07/02/2018 20:54

Just wondering about this!

How many children have you got?
How many children do you want? Or did you want?
Do you ever get broody?
What age are you?

There’ll be no more babies for me but I do get a little broody from time to time!🙁

I’ll start,
I’ve 2 children
Wanted 3
Get broody but less so as they grow up, age 3/5
I’m 38

OP posts:
BoomBoomsCousin · 07/02/2018 21:52

I have 2. I want my 2 but I wanted 0.
I have never been broody.
I’m 49.

Spidergirl999 · 07/02/2018 21:52

I have 2 DD8/DS1

I would love another but I don’t think it would be the right thing for us to do.

I’m 35

DowntonCrabby · 07/02/2018 21:52

We have 2

An amazing, beautiful, sensitive, hippy of a girl, who despite recently hitting her teens, I 100% guarantee won't give us even 1/4 of the teenage grief I gave my parents. She's been an absolute dream of a child.

Also a gorgeous, cheeky, hilarious, stubborn, super clever too clever for his own good little boy who turns 5 tomorrow. He's a bloomin' handful and I'm sure will make up for our eldest being the dream child but I predict we'll worry less about him as an adult than we will about our DD.

We'd both love a 3rd or even 4th but have allowed head to rule heart in terms of practicality/finances/our current children's needs/ space/the future etc.

My siblings and in-laws really need to get a bloody move on and start giving me Nieces and Nephews to dull the bloodiness.

Chewbecca · 07/02/2018 21:52

Have 1, 14 year old
Wanted 3
45 now & won't be having any more
Have been very broody at times, less frequently now

Thank goodness I have 2 DSS and a DGD arriving soon.

LittleMyLikesSnuffkin · 07/02/2018 21:54

I have 2 at one point wanted loads then decided I was finished. Now I’m in a happy, healthy relationship with someone I really love I’m broody and can’t wait to have babies with him at some point.

DowntonCrabby · 07/02/2018 21:54

*broodiness not bloodiness Shock

JaneEyre70 · 07/02/2018 21:54

3 DDs and 1 stillborn DS. I always wanted a 5th but was advised against it as after 2 c sections my uterus was battered beyond repair. Given the issues I've had, it was good advice but I took many years to come to peace with it. I guess having lost one, it was never going to feel "complete". I'm very lucky having my 3 girls, they're my sky full of stars. And now I have a grandson and 2 granddaughters - utter magic. I was there when my grandson was born, and holding him for the first time was a very bittersweet moment. He's a complete little monkey and gets away with far too much when he's with me Grin

floriad · 07/02/2018 21:54

How many have I got?
0
How many do I want?
2 - 3 (but I guess it depends on how things go with this pregnancy etc)
Age?
Late 20ies

Jaygee61 · 07/02/2018 21:55

Wanted 2, eventually would have been happy with one, had none.

Was obv intensely broody but not anymore.

SaltySeaBird · 07/02/2018 21:55

How many children have you got? 2
How many children do you want? 2
Or did you want? 2
Do you ever get broody? No but my youngest is only one still!
What age are you?40

Definitely done and DH has had vasectomy.

Pompom42 · 07/02/2018 21:57

I’ve got 2 girls ages 12 and 3
I always wanted 2 girls.
I’m 46
Last One was def a gift from god

PenelopeChipShop · 07/02/2018 21:58

I have two.
We said ‘two or three’. DH has now done a runner so we’re stopping at 2. I’m 37.

I don’t get broody at all but I am seriously considering being a surrogate for a friend with secondary infertility.

BigBaboonBum · 07/02/2018 22:00

I wanted three, then had two and only wanted two, then agreed to a third. Currently pregnant and don’t want anymore after this one

HolgerDanske · 07/02/2018 22:02

I have two children (both adults now).
I never had a particular number in mind.
Fuck No, I never get broody.
I’m 41.

demirose87 · 07/02/2018 22:02

I've got four and been sterilised.
I'm 30.

blinkineckmum · 07/02/2018 22:04

I have 3.
I'd love 4.
I'm 35.

To be honest, 3 is a stretch financially as we'd love a bigger house. So between that and my age (dc3 is due in March), I think we'll have 3.

Patienceisvirtuous · 07/02/2018 22:04

I have 1 DS (age 9 months). I’m 40.

Wanted 3. Have changed that to 2 now (am old and knackered).

If we only manage 1 i’ll be okay with that (DS is a precious gift after recurrent miscarriages and infertility).

Haudyerwheesht · 07/02/2018 22:04

Am 36, have 11 and 7 year olds . Wanted 4 kids but I get hyperemesis when pregnant and couldn't face it again. Don't get properly broody anymore although I did until relatively recently.

Catra · 07/02/2018 22:05

I have 1 on the way.
Only ever imagined having 1 - partly because I'm an only child myself and partly because of the expense.
I only started getting broody when I was 37.
I'm 39 now.

Oysterbabe · 07/02/2018 22:07

How many children have you got? 2
How many children do you want? Or did you want? 2 :)
Do you ever get broody? DS is only 7 weeks so a bit early for broodiness but I feel really sad retiring clothes as he grows out of them knowing I won't be using them again. I also feel sad I won't get to give birth again. I keep going over my births in my head, it was such a wonderful and empowering experience.
What age are you? 37

PippyPopPop · 07/02/2018 22:08

I have 1, I'm 23. I want 3 or 4 ideally but I'm suffering quite badly with PTSD from my birth so I need to get my head around that before I think of another one!

MyDcAreMarvel · 07/02/2018 22:08

I have seven dc , wanted two as a child but as I started having children I wanted more.
I am broody yes , am ttc our last one.
Am 37.

AnElderlyLadyOfMediumHeight · 07/02/2018 22:10
  1. Small gap between 1&2, big gap between 2&3.

Am 40.

Am done, done, done. Never had this feeling before no. 3 - I wasn't 'broody' as we imagine it but I wanted another child - but as soon as she was here I knew that was it. I would find it very upsetting to get pregnant again and tbh I'd probably terminate.

Whatshallidonowpeople · 07/02/2018 22:10

Children's?? Children's what?

YolandiFuckinVisser · 07/02/2018 22:10

I wanted 5, then had DS and revised down to 1. Got over the hard work baby bit and revised up to 4. Split with xh and resigned myself to 1, accidentally got pregnant with DD. Would have loved another but didn't work out so I'm at 2 and content.

Age 44, DS 16 and DD 11

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