To ask my boyfriend not to talk to me when DTD?

[6079SmithW]

I get that it's probably all part of the experience for him, and I in no way want to curtail his enjoyment. A few odd words/phrases here or there I actually quite like too, but it is becoming almost a running commentary! AIBU to tell him to shut up?

MrPan

Are you the OP's boyfriend?

"Express your feelings" generally doesn't mean complimenting someone on their fanny.

"Express your feelings" generally doesn't mean complimenting someone on their fanny

Yep, maybe just not do a verbal commentary when on the nest and it’s sound.

"Express your feelings" generally doesn't mean complimenting someone on their fanny.

MrPan suddenly realises where he has been going wrong all these years.

To be fair, maybe Mr Pan's deepest thought and feelings are all about fannies.

Good grief, if that's what a man expressing his feelings sounds like you can keep it.

@MrPan It was never my intention to present my bf to be ridiculed, just to check whether I would BU to ask him not to talk so much. Tbh I wasn't sure if not liking it was just something peculiar to me or not.

However I have to agree with PP. If you genuinely equate talking about your feelings with any of the examples I have of what he says then you are very misguided. Even my bf wouldn't try to pass them off as feelings and he's saying it

I'd hope anyone I asked to discuss their feelings with me would at least think it worthy of keeping still and looking me in the face while we were doing it!

@picklemepopcorn

To be fair, maybe Mr Pan's deepest thought and feelings are all about fannies

I’ve never had an incessant talker. I do like a bit of dirty talk but only a bit.

I did have an entirely silent during sex boyfriend once. I mean as in, he seemed to hold his breath the entire time, couldn’t even hear him breathing sort of silent. It was very off putting. Not least because he would often say how much the noises I made turned him on . I found myself getting distracted trying to work out cues that weren’t just an erect penis.